Serious question, not JUST prurient curiosity:
When you suck cock, is it pleasurable for you?
I asked a lover once and she said that, no, it was not physically pleasurable to suck cock, that it was like having a pole stuck in your mouth.
BUT, she also said that she got off on it because she knew it was such an enormous turn-on for me.
I get this point of view because I love eating pussy, but only because I love driving my partner wild and helping her cum. I mean, I wouldn't go down to the market and buy one for supper, but if it came with a woman attached…
An incredibly talented, but modest Polar Bear, often mischievous, but never malicious!
Yes, I enjoy sucking cock and get pleasure out of it.
Yes love it and knowing how much he's enjoying it
There are few things more sexy and powerful than controlling a man through his cock, with my mouth!
Sitting at the edge of darkness
Not at first, I did not. I do now, many, many years after those first times.
Even the first time, though, beyond the physical aspect, there was a rather powerful feeling in knowing that simple movements of my tongue or lips were bringing him pleasure, or pain if say a tooth hit the wrong spot. The shy, meek me (back then) felt very powerful and the giving side of me felt very satisfied in knowing what I was giving to him.
Today, I love the feel against the roof of my mouth, my tongue, my lips, the back of my throat... the taste! That lingering feeling of power is still there but tempered with pleasure of my own. So long as he does not try to direct me (pushing down on my head) he will be happily rewarded. Verbal ques are welcomed, I like that not this or the simple moan or scream lol.
As I have told my partners, I know what I am doing, let me do MY thing and your thing will be happy!
I didn't always like it, I think I can blame that on some bad experiences in my younger years but I do enjoy it now. I think the idea of being able to do it almost anywhere also adds to the thrill of it.
Immeasurably. I'm one of those girls who always felt that way, too. What I want to do with the cum is pretty situational, though.
Thank you all for your thoughts.
If I may interpreting your answers so far:
1) there are differences between one woman and another (not surprising) in their initial reaction to fellatio
2) It is highly pleasurable being able to give your partner pleasure
3) It also can give a sense of power
4) It can be an (forgive me) acquired taste
From my side, I would say that eating a woman's pussy has always been something I've enjoyed, but mainly for reasons #2 & 3.
One of my lovers seemed to have another motivation. She used to do it to demonstrate submission. That may actually be a combination of #2 & 3, but actually more #3. Or it may be a completely different kind of motivation. Any thoughts?
BTW, I adore women who suck cock, and suspect most men feel the same way. If I can offer a suggestion, looking the guy straight in the eyes while you're doing it is also a real turn-on.
Any suggestions for providing useful feedback, before, during, or after? It seems a little cold to say things like, "Nope, a little to the left. Little more. There! That's the spot." What would you like to hear from your partner?
And thank you all. I am always eager to learn more how to please, and be pleased.
An incredibly talented, but modest Polar Bear, often mischievous, but never malicious!
I absolutely do enjoy it. For me, it's mostly like what you said about giving and seeing/feeling the direct reaction of your partner.
Yes I love sucking Cock.I like hearing him moan
I've loved sucking cock from the very first time I did it, and I learned very quickly to use similar techniques on guys that I mastered while going down on other girls. Start with a slow tease, ...kisses, licks, a devilish glint as I look them in the eye, seeing them beg for more... wandering just off-center of their perfect spot, then coming back to it with a vengeance. Swallowing everything they give me. I love everything about it!
i really learned to enjoy sex with a man with my first husband. i loved having his cock and cum in my mouth. the first time i pushed past the gag point he absolutely exploded in my throat.
I love it. For me it’s a control thing and a sharing thing. To me oral sex is sometimes better than regular sex. I like giving and recieving oral. I love to take my man in my mouth and make him cum.
I love the feeling of being on my knees with a real man and feel
His cock harden in my mouth. Thrills me to know I am giving him pleasure
Absolutely adore it . xxxx
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I didn't mind doing it back in the day, I just had really bad technique. I blame the truly hopeless boyfriends I had in my life for their total inability to teach me how to be more then passable.
The best part was once they'd shot their load, they'd wander off happy and I could get down to the things that made me happy.
Where did I put my Killer Kan model it needs another coat of paint on the klaws.
Whatever was posted is always meant in love and respect never to offend.
I'm also highly likely to have posted this from a phone so there may be typos or odd word changes, auto correct can be a pain.
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I love sucking cock, most especially if I get to swallow at the end. My fav thing.
I do but not as much as the guy I am doing it to.
I have been doing it for more years than I can remember and I have never become bored doing it as I enjoy the ultimate please he gives me.
Its more in the guy than the act -
Yes, love it, love to swallow.
It depends. Some times it is very sexy to feel his hard cock throbbing in my mouth and to run my tongue over that bulbous head....other times it's the last thing I fancy doing.
I agree that the biggest turn on is how it makes my man feel though.
Lol. I caught him just in time. Katie here, and hubby was about to answer on my behalf. Anyone who I've chatted with here on Lush or has read my stories knows the answer to this question. Giving a guy oral pleasure is the most important aspect of my sexuality. It is exciting, empowering, satisfying and for me, very orgasmic. I LOVE it!!
Early on I can not say I enjoyed sucking cock. I did enjoy the concept of pleasing my date. There was one man when I was younger who really was BIG, perhaps a good 9 inches and a fat cock. I hated giving him head. Hell, he was a lousy lovere anyway.
I was married for many years, recently widowed, and I very much enjoyed giving my husband head. Yes, I liked the feel of his cock. Not too big, just right and I always enjoyed him cumming in my mouth.
Oh, very, very much. I have done it when my lover was quite silent, not that I was doing a bad job, they just weren't the sort to make noise when getting sucked off. But I learned how to suck, to make it pulse and drip in my mouth. I do think I like it better when I get moans and groans as encouragement. I love that moment when you feel the load release in your mouth. Just so ... pleasantly startling. Even if they announce they are coming. that spurt, and the warm jizz hits your mouth. Its always like a giddy surprise of sensation. I love it.
Love sucking cock as they stroke my hair telling me how beautiful I am
