Ok ladies,
I like watching porn just like most other red blooded males but have seen too many sex scenes where the female is getting choked. What is up with that and what are your feelings on this type of activity?
TIA
I am with you, thisthat1562. I don't get it. C'mon ladies, please explain.
Unless you enjoy my knee slamming into your nutsack, don't choke me!
I had several girlfriends who liked that, I was and am very hesitated to comply and if very gentle. My partner now loves it and told me recently she had phone sex with an old friend, and they played with choking her and he demanded to hold her breath till he tells her to breath again, and when he did she came immediately with a very powerful orgasm. I came home not much later and found her still in a very heighten sexual desire and we fucked like crazy. She likes do get dominated, and deep throat face fucked till she chokes
I like light choking. I'm not quite sure I can give you a great answer as to why, because I haven't really explored that yet. It might have something to do with trust, vulnerability, and adrenaline, if you want an off-the-cuff answer.
Forcible choking is a hard no, though. If anyone wants to do that do someone, have an in-depth conversation with the other person first. Full of safe words and even actions, whatever it takes. Acting before you ask is dangerous for everyone.
