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Are girls dirtier then men in bed?
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Am I the agressor no, not usually. Kinky than all the guys I've been with most definately, and probably more so than the guys I'll evenutally be with. I tend to play it safe. Have I been with an experienced older man sadly no. That's probably why I'm into the whole genre, I like pushing the boundries. (And no I'm not talking about anything incestual, ick ick ick, turns my tummy, no offense ment to anyone. Its just not my cup of tea.)
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Usually the initiator but not dominant. Kinkier at first...I tend to encourage guys to have fun and try things. Eventually we find our common ground and it's a very comfortable place to be.
I'm an enabler and a bad influence, hah.
I'm an enabler and a bad influence, hah.
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Usually the initiator but not dominant. Kinkier at first...I tend to encourage guys to have fun and try things. Eventually we find our common ground and it's a very comfortable place to be.
I'm an enabler and a bad influence, hah.
I could second what she said. I should add though, I enjoy older men.
Advanced Wordsmith
No doubt about it..... I'm the aggresser, the dominant one and not scared to try anything....within reason. It scares my hubby sometimes!! LOL!! It surprised me since he's several years older than me!! I love seeing the expression on his face when I come up with something!
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Hmm, interesting question. I think women just have better imagination, the male's brain is scientifically better at things like maths and science, whereas women have the gift for things like literacy. Our minds explore sex in lots of different ways, whereas often (some) men think there is one way to have sex, just pop it in and slam in and out as fast as you can. Umm, no! Ha
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I think as a whole, women are "dirtier" than men. I think a lot of women try to hide that fact because it is what society expects just like the guys portray that they are worse because it is "manly". But deep down we are naughtier than the guys, well at least most women I know are. Women are just more creative, sexually and otherwise!!!
My experience has simply been that men seem to be happy with more boring sex than women.. I don't mean that they wouldn't PREFER more 'mixed up' sex, I just think that they're more happy to settle. Unless they spend all day wanking or have 'issues' then any man can cum from the likes of simple missionary etc.. so they're usually alright to just leave it at that if no one is pushing them to do otherwise.
Naturally, men that are more experienced (or are simple more adventurous) don't fall into that category and are likely to be just as 'dirty' as us.
I've definitely had issues with trying to get guys to come out of their shell with regards to sex.. and I'm talking guys aged anywhere from teens to being in their 50s so I don't think it's purely down to experience.
As a general rule my instinct would be to go with, yes, women are more dirty than men. This may be because sex is alot more mental (no, not as in insane) for us, I don't know.
Naturally, men that are more experienced (or are simple more adventurous) don't fall into that category and are likely to be just as 'dirty' as us.
I've definitely had issues with trying to get guys to come out of their shell with regards to sex.. and I'm talking guys aged anywhere from teens to being in their 50s so I don't think it's purely down to experience.
As a general rule my instinct would be to go with, yes, women are more dirty than men. This may be because sex is alot more mental (no, not as in insane) for us, I don't know.
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I think as a whole, women are "dirtier" than men. I think a lot of women try to hide that fact because it is what society expects just like the guys portray that they are worse because it is "manly". But deep down we are naughtier than the guys, well at least most women I know are. Women are just more creative, sexually and otherwise!!!
I totally agree! In the small, rural town I live in, women who are more open and free in their sex life are labeled "whores". The men... no one gives that a second thought. As for me personally, people tend to think I am the perfect picture of innocence,
when the reality is that the hubby and I love to get wild! Am I "dirtier" than my hubby? Absolutely!!! Judging from my conversations with my girlfriends and female coworkers, I'd definitely say that yes, we women are the dirty ones most of the time. 
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I know that throughout my adult life....I've met half a dozen women....who were/are more twisted than color tv. Their suggestions simply fried my noodle for a few seconds and caused me to think (once I could logically rearrange my thoughts)...
That perhaps I was about to bite off a buttload more than I could possibly chew.
Yes...some women are definitely filthier in thought and fantasy, than at least this man. And I'm not really sure if that's good or bad thing.
That perhaps I was about to bite off a buttload more than I could possibly chew.
Yes...some women are definitely filthier in thought and fantasy, than at least this man. And I'm not really sure if that's good or bad thing.
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i am DEFINATELY dirtier than my man!
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Ladies tell it like it is. Are you the agressor? Are you kinkier than the fella laying next to you? Have you been with an experienced older man?
Probably 30% of the time I'm the aggressor.
I think my BF is a bit darker than I am but we are a good match.
My BF is 17 years older than me, so I'd say yes. I really enjoy having a man who takes his time and makes things about me.
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haven't been with an older man but yeah us gals are all more kinkier in bed and in relationships...I'm bi so i see both sides all the time. I am a bit submissive though, unless me lover wants otherwise
I'm a str8 forward, spicy and ruthless kuntry gal, think you can handle me?
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I have surprised a couple of guys who weren't expecting some of my suggestions! I think girls are sometimes just more imaginative.
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That's a big ole yes.
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Aggressor,hardly ever. I am for sure the more kinkier but it might be because when getting to know somoene guys tend to be slower in how to get to that point.
Advanced Wordsmith
male brain is in the cock head, women / girls kinkier and sexy
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Kind of vague question isn't it?
With another girl or a guy?
Maybe sometimes I'm not so aggressive, but...
yes, I can be rather aggressive especially if it ist early morning und I'm horny.
I'm gonna awaken him with a gute titty fuck und suck massaging cum up from his balls...I'm getting that cum und licking clean every inch for his work day.
Send him off with a nice breakfast und a quick fuck if he has time und can manage it again after I've already jacked him dry with such dirty talk about giving me my cum.
I most surely love watching her slowly O-face und awaken with my tongue yumming up und down in her hood,
biting her clit softly at first, then suddenly sucking it deeply while flicking my tongue again, slowly fingerfucking her until she begins spraying abit, und pulling at her nips, rolling them between my fingers...I'm getting her to finally squirt even if I have to three-finger that Gspot madly und lick up her vertebrae...giggles
Sure been with older guys, not all so experienced as they think,...everyone believes themselves to have a sense of humor as well...smiles,
but older guys always seem nice und fun to be with und do me just fine betwixt my nethers.
They most always practice such chivalry, und show much appreciation for spending time with them as well, more than they ever need to show, but still very lovely to feel special that way...smiles
With another girl or a guy?
Maybe sometimes I'm not so aggressive, but...
yes, I can be rather aggressive especially if it ist early morning und I'm horny.
I'm gonna awaken him with a gute titty fuck und suck massaging cum up from his balls...I'm getting that cum und licking clean every inch for his work day.
Send him off with a nice breakfast und a quick fuck if he has time und can manage it again after I've already jacked him dry with such dirty talk about giving me my cum.
I most surely love watching her slowly O-face und awaken with my tongue yumming up und down in her hood,
biting her clit softly at first, then suddenly sucking it deeply while flicking my tongue again, slowly fingerfucking her until she begins spraying abit, und pulling at her nips, rolling them between my fingers...I'm getting her to finally squirt even if I have to three-finger that Gspot madly und lick up her vertebrae...giggles
Sure been with older guys, not all so experienced as they think,...everyone believes themselves to have a sense of humor as well...smiles,
but older guys always seem nice und fun to be with und do me just fine betwixt my nethers.
They most always practice such chivalry, und show much appreciation for spending time with them as well, more than they ever need to show, but still very lovely to feel special that way...smiles
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Once I knew/know where I stand, then, in my experience, I lead/push guys to naughtier stuff. Once my husband made it very clear that I could do what I want, I did it with a vengeance and all my men have commented at some breathless point "Fuck, you're like some ... I don't know what!"
I think SOME women are dirtier. I know quite a few who keep it tightly tamped down and never question their choices. Most of the women I know giggle nervously about any hints of my 'fangs' showing through from time to time; ie, when they realize I wear garter belts and sheer panties, half cup bras etc.
Probably, the women on this site are not very representative of the female population in general. It takes a lot of 'umph' to withstand the wolves, slurs and general creepiness that comes with being a woman on lush.
I think SOME women are dirtier. I know quite a few who keep it tightly tamped down and never question their choices. Most of the women I know giggle nervously about any hints of my 'fangs' showing through from time to time; ie, when they realize I wear garter belts and sheer panties, half cup bras etc.
Probably, the women on this site are not very representative of the female population in general. It takes a lot of 'umph' to withstand the wolves, slurs and general creepiness that comes with being a woman on lush.
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In my experience, women are definitely more imaginative, if that's what you mean.
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I know this is Ask The Gals but if I may...
I have not yet a woman kinkier than I. In reading your comments above I sure would love to spend time with you ladies. If you ever get to Phoenix let me know.
I have not yet a woman kinkier than I. In reading your comments above I sure would love to spend time with you ladies. If you ever get to Phoenix let me know.
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Ladies tell it like it is. Are you the agressor? Are you kinkier than the fella laying next to you? Have you been with an experienced older man?
I'm rarely the aggressor in bed, primarily because I enjoy a strong and confident personality. I'm often the kinkier one in bed, and the delicious few that surpass me, always make me smile.
As for experienced, older men... yes. I prefer them.