As we grow up, everyone has crushes. Sometimes you develop a crush on a teacher or a neighbor, sometimes it’s on a classmate or a movie star. My crush was a girl a few years older than me who would go on family vacations. Once a year, a large group of multiple families would gather at a lake resort in Wisconsin. Uncles, cousins, brothers, sisters, even unrelated family friends would all come and go over a few-week period and enjoy some of what nature has to offer.
I was a slow developer. In my first year of high school, I was short and skinny. I played basketball and baseball in school but most of the time I just got slivers in my butt from the bench. Needless to say, my experience with women was extremely limited. It was that summer when I noticed Peggy.
My first image of her was when I came around the corner of our cabin only to freeze in my tracks when I saw this girl laying on her stomach on a chaise lawn chair. She was wearing the skimpiest brown bikini, I, in my young life, had ever seen. On top of that, she had untied the top and let the strings fall to the side so she wouldn’t have a tan line. Between the untied top and the bottom pulled up tight on her backside, this was the closest I had ever been to seeing a real naked woman! I just stared, mouth open.
Peggy was a few years older than me, she was pretty, tall, thin, with long blonde hair, and had well-developed curves. I’m honestly not sure how long I stood there staring, but when she started to stir a little, I ran in the opposite direction.
I talked to her a few times, she always talked to me like I was one of the little kids. I didn’t care, I just wanted her to talk to me. Unfortunately, when I asked my mother about her, I was told she was the daughter of a distant cousin. She told me that, “her side of the family” really didn’t interact much but if I thought about it, I might remember her from interactions when I was in grade school. I didn’t really remember. Sadly, I figured that meant, that even if I miraculously grew six inches and put on forty pounds of muscles, she would be forever out of reach.
That vacation, however, her tanning spot was between our family’s cabin and hers, and I couldn’t help but notice the view from my bedroom window. I shared the room with my older brother, so I had to be careful, but I have to admit, I spent more than a few hours pretending I wasn’t feeling well and wanting to lie down. Needless to say, I went through enough tissue to make people think I was having allergy issues. After her family packed up and left, the summer was pretty boring. I found myself, spending time thinking about Peggy and wondering if I would ever find a woman that, well, sexy.
The next year, I was looking forward to seeing Peggy again. After arriving at the cabin, I, nonchalantly, asked my mother when the other families would be arriving. She proceeded to go on a twenty-minute, gossip-laden, rant about the various families. The one useful, but very disappointing, piece of information was that there had been a divorce in Peggy’s family and that they most likely would not be coming. They did not and I didn’t see or hear of her again.
That is, until I was in my fifties and my father passed away. Over the years, I had gone to college, made a career, got married, and had several children. I have a good (and boring) life. My father’s passing, while very sad, was not sudden, he was sick for a while and, honestly, we were all relieved that his suffering ended when it did.
My brother and I were standing in the funeral home and talking when I noticed my brother watching someone walk across the room. When I turned around, I saw what he was looking at. It was a beautiful blonde woman, in a tasteful but short black dress and heels. She was walking to the front to view my father.
My brother said, “wow, who is that?” I couldn’t help but smile, I immediately recognized Peggy. While she was obviously, much older, she was still as absolutely stunning as she had ever been.
We both watched as she paid her respects and then started milling about the room and speaking to various relatives. Eventually, she worked her way over to my brother and me. She extended her hand and offered her condolences to each of us. She proceeded to re-introduce herself, explaining who she was and to what branch of the family she belonged. I said, that I definitely remembered her from the lake at least one summer. She said, that her family only went the one summer and then not again after her parents' divorce.
The three of us chatted for a while, getting to the point where we were telling stories about our parents and laughing at the inside jokes that all kids know about their folks. After a while, she said she needed to head out and again offered her condolences. As she was about to walk away, something came over me and I called out to her and offered one of my business cards. I suggested that we shouldn’t wait another forty years to catch up again. She smiled and took the card.
Then my brother said, “maybe you would be interested in coming up to the cabin this year. We still all go to the same resort every July.”
She was polite and said, maybe, that would be nice. Then before she walked away, she looked at me, and with a little bit of a sparkle in her eye and a smirk at the corner of her mouth, she said to me, “I’m surprised you still go up there, after all, you had such terrible allergies that kept you in your room so much.”
With a subtle wink, she turned and headed out the door.
I was frozen in place, just like I was on that summer day when I came around the corner to see her laying out in the sun. She remembered the allergies!?! Did she think I really had allergies or did she know I had spent much of that week, peeking out of the curtains at her and doing what teenage boys do when they see a nearly naked woman? My mind was reeling and my brother continued jabbering away.
He woke me from my trance as he made a fairly rude comment about her ass. “Stop it,” I said, “she’s your cousin.”
“Not really,”, he replied with a laugh.
“What do you mean,” I asked.
“She is Uncle Larry’s, son’s, daughter. At most she is a second or third cousin and probably removed. She, my little brother, is fair game,” he replied with a laugh. My brother is on his third marriage, he is a bit of a lech.
I waved my brother off and told him he was an asshole but have to admit, what he said stuck in my head.
Later that night, laying in the dark and listening to my wife snore lightly, I could not sleep. Memories of Peggy in that brown bikini and that little black dress kept drifting into my mind. Finally, I picked up my phone and looked up the definition of what a cousin and second or third cousin is. I never really understood what the “removed” thing meant.
It was quite educational. I learned that she was, indeed, not my actual cousin but a third cousin twice removed. The piece that shocked me was that people of this relationship, dated and married each other! The completely unrealistic thought ran through my head, had I known that…
My mind spun on the thought for a little while when I received a notice of a new email. I opened my work email and there it was, sent at 2:38 AM, an email from Peggy.
It was a simple, “hi, was nice to see you,” but it made me smile and I had butterflies like I was a teenage kid again. I have to admit, that to finally fall asleep, I needed a box of kleenex.
I replied, very simply the next day that it was nice to see her as well.
Over the next few weeks, we went back and forth and caught up on each other’s stories. She was married and had several children, all of which were grown except one who was in college. Interestingly enough, she and her husband lived only a few miles from where I worked.
I told her about my life, my kids, work, etc. When I told her about my wife having cancer, she explained her husband had been diagnosed and treated for prostate cancer almost ten years previous. I said, I was very sorry to hear and understood how difficult such things were. Upon discussing that both spouses were in complete remission, I commented that it is amazing how medical science has progressed in that what once was a death sentence could now be a long full life. Then she made a joke about it not being a completely full life. I asked what that meant. She said that when her husband had his prostate removed, he lost the ability to have an erection. Without the ability to satisfy himself, he’d stopped pretty much everything and their relationship had become platonic. I didn’t say it, but I knew exactly what she was talking about. After her bout with cancer, my wife had also lost interest in sex.
Things went on that way for several months. It was really nice, we were actually becoming friends. I found myself looking forward to seeing her emails in my inbox each day.
Then one day, I received an email with the topic, “look what I found.” When I opened the email, there was an old picture from the cabin. Peggy was there in all of her skin-baring, brown bikini’d glory smiling for the camera. Wow!
I work at a security firm and our email is highly monitored. The next day, I received an email from the IT department reminding me that company email was not to be used for personal communications and especially for materials of an explicit nature.
When I told Peggy, while she apologized, she thought it was the most hilarious thing she had ever heard. I asked her if she would mind if we changed how we communicated and I moved her to an anonymous email account that only I knew about.
She teased me, pretty constantly about her being my secret girlfriend on my secret email account. Our conversations got very personal and we joked and teased. I would even say, we sometimes crossed the line into flirting. Things got very personal. I laughed hard when she wrote and asked me how many women I had “bagged” before I got married. After I told her, she told me she was impressed, shared that she was completely healthy and asked if I had or had ever had an STI. I laughed and replied that I had just been tested and I was 100% clean. I shook my head, I don’t think I have ever put that type of information into an email before. There was something about her that just made me comfortable talking about just about anything.