My wife and I met a long time ago in a chat room, and quickly became phone sex partners. After a year or so of that, we finally met in person, and another year later we married.
We’ve always had a very healthy sex life, but a few years back things slowed down a little as they do sometimes when you have kids. We decided to spice things up a little, a bit slowly at first, and one of the first things we did was have phone sex again. It had been years, and it felt like going back to our roots. One night while we were having phone sex, we started talking about experiences we had with other partners. She admitted to me that there were nights early on after we met when she’d call other guys first for phone sex, because she was so horny for me she just couldn’t wait (I worked late some nights). But then later those nights, she and I would still have phone sex, too, I just didn’t know about it. Admittedly, I had some other side partners, too, early on but I dropped them as things progressed with my future wife. But I never considered she had done the same. It never even crossed my mind.
What I found interesting was once she told me about this, I was immediately and insanely turned on by it. Just the thought of her being with someone else in any sexual way, and then me coming in after to reclaim her, was SO DAMN HOT. Needless to say, we began to role play these scenarios in our bedroom. And that’s where things like realistic dildos come in handy!
We initially discussed the possibility of me watching her have phone sex with someone, and then we fuck after. We both agreed it would be hot, but she is very big on monogamy and was afraid it would be a slippery slope. One night, though, after a lot of foreplay, she became receptive to the idea. We called a phone sex hotline, she laid flat on her back, I sat between her legs and used a black realistic dildo on her as she had phone sex with the male operator.