My journey began with a dare.
In October 2019, I was a member of the website Tumblr. I followed a few blogs about classic cars. I met and chatted with a guy named Jeff that was restoring a car. Occasionally his wife would log on and chat. I discovered they live in an FLR. It was explained to me what that entailed. I continued to chat, following the progress of the car restoration.
One evening, his wife got me into a discussion about chastity. I learned that night how important chastity was to their relationship. She kept her husband locked 24/7. I could not understand how someone would do that. I laughed, thinking about how people might choose to explore chastity. The wife (let's call her Sandy) gave me a challenge. She said I couldn't judge the actions without knowing firsthand for myself.
In my weakness, I took on the dare. She told me to buy a chastity device and follow a schedule for seven days. Once I completed this, we would chat about it.
Schedule:
Day one: two-three hours locked at home.
Day two: three plus hours and out running errands.
Day three: wear to work and try to last half the day.
Day four: all day at work.
Day five: wear it when I sleep.
Day six: keep it on for half the night.
Day seven: keep it on all night until after my morning shower.
I took this dare, not thinking where it could lead. it just was a dare that I took on for kicks and giggles. I knew I would spend a little money on the purchase of this device. My time fooling around with the cage would occupy my time. I was single and so no reason to worry about being discovered. I think I was a little bored and needed something.
I found a lot of variety in cages. I was concerned about the bulk of the padlock, showing through the clothes. I found a modern cage that I liked. The cage was controlled through a phone app. I purchased the cage arriving about a week later. I may have spent the day, trying to figure out how to get it on properly. I was ready to start this challenge.
My first day was nothing. My second day made me nervous, but that feeling disappeared. I left for work on my third day and felt confident. If I had run into trouble, I had my phone removed from the bathroom. Only at Lunch during a trip to Home Depot did I get scared. I walked out the doors when the alarm beeped. Luckily a customer had a purchase that triggered the alarm.
Now, a full day at work was more difficult. I wore my cage for ten hours. My erection was building, which made the situation awkward. A couple of nights of trying to sleep was the worst. I felt the cage on and just couldn't fall asleep. The third night I was tired, and I fell sound asleep with the cage on. The incredible pain in my groin woke me. I had morning erections contained in my cage. The throbbing pain was intense. However, I had rules to follow and couldn't just remove the cage.