For many years I had wondered what this thing called swinging was like. I loved sex. You could say I was a sexual addict. But to consider having sex in front of others, possibly in group situations? I didn't know if I could do this.
I was not built like Brad Pitt, Harrison Ford, Sean Connery. More like Brian Dennehy. I was 6'4", 270, and not in the midst of my youth any more. Being of average build, would I be accepted? Whenever I read those swing ad publications, all the men seemed to have 8, 10, 12" cocks. That wasn't me. Think of the embarrassment if I didn't stand up.
Well, there was only one way to find out. First thing I found out was that 99% of the swing clubs in my area were for couples only. And, alas, I was but a single gent. So, I figured my chance of finally getting to experience what all these folks were apparently having fun at was not going to happen.
That's when I met Betty & Glen. They were from a nearby town and were a long time swinging couple. I'd responded to one of their ads posted in a magazine, saying they accepted single guys. We met over dinner and had a great conversation. That's when they found out I'd had a desire to try out a swing club.
They were members of the area's oldest and largest on-premise club. They told me they had some single lady friends and thought they might get one to accompany me to the club as my date. The first gal they introduced me to wasn't anywhere near my type. She was into the hardcore BDSM aspect, whereas I was more of a soft pleasure-sharing sort. Was she the norm for swing club members? I was to soon find out differently.
The second gal Betty & Glen introduced me to was a great gal, and after meeting over dinner, we found we had quite a few things in common. She tried to assure me that just because she'd be my date that evening, if I didn't desire, we didn't have to do anything ourselves. I assured her that wasn't the case, that I found her attractive. We couldn't play that evening, as it'd been set up just for a meeting and she had to go to work early the following day.
We all met at Betty & Glen's apartment for the 20 minute drive to the club the next night. What was I getting myself into? Should I really be here? Was this really for me? All these and many more questions entered my mind.
I'd been told to bring something 'sexy' to wear once we got there. Got there? Shouldn't I dress to impress 'before' we got there? That's when Betty snuggled next to me, felt my crotch, and told me to bring some sexy underwear to wear. That most folks dressed down to lingerie and such once they got there. Thank goodness she told me. First thing that entered my mind was the old saying bout your mother always telling you to put on clean underwear as a kid. In case of emergency, and if you got rushed to the hospital and undressed you wouldn't be embarrassed. Well, I could only think of the embarrassment of not being properly attired at a swing club full of horny people.
Well, there we were, at the front door of a huge country home out in the boonies! I thought we were stopping to get others when I noticed all the cars parked besides the house. We parked the car, and walked up to the front door. Surprisingly Glen didn't knock but walked right in. Once inside we were met by this grandmotherly gal in her 60's. She was naked except for a maid-like apron. Hmmmm, was this the normal swinger? Grannie? I was introduced, asked to fill out a membership card and pay my dues. Then Betty and Glen took me on a tour of my first swing club.
Folks were already gathering all over the house. It was a huge split-level affair. On the main floor, where we entered, was a foyer, kitchen and living room with a huge fireplace. Upstairs I was shown 6 bedrooms. Each and every one had three or more beds in them. On tables besides the doorways were bowls of condoms. Two massage tables were also present upstairs. WOW! Near one of the two bathrooms was a spiral staircase going down to the lower level. In the lower level was a dance floor, bar, sitting area, locker room, and gigantic hot tub.
I was introduced around by Betty and Glen as the 'New Guy' and was quickly accepted into the crowd.