We started dating sophomore year of high school. We met through some mutual friends and I had a crush on her right away. I think a lot of guys did. So I asked her if she wanted to get dinner some time and I was honestly really surprised when she said yes. I wasn't sure if she saw it as a date but I definitely did.
I'll use fake names for privacy reasons. We'll call her Mary Jane and me Batman.
Mary was always super friendly to everyone, and had a glow to her that made everyone in the room happy. She brought out the best in people, and that was something I loved about her. Sometimes it was a bit much because I was a pretty jealous guy and seeing her connect with guys annoyed me a bit more than I liked to admit.
She was also pretty flirty with just about everyone in an innocent kind of way. She didn't talk about sex or anything like that but she was always touching people and subtly teasing people (especially guys). I don't think she realized how much of a turn on it was. It was just the way she talked to guys.
My friends were super jealous of me during high school and clearly didn't understand why she was going out with me. She was much more physically attractive than me and about 10 times more likeable. I was just a random kind of nerdy guy who liked video games and weed. She was super self-conscious about her braces in high school, which I think was part of the reason she went out with me. Once she got those off in college she looked like a supermodel. She had long straight brunette hair with bright green eyes. Her skin was smooth and soft, with an olive color that tanned really nicely. Her nose was small and her face was narrow, with lots of freckles all over her cheeks. I thought she was the cutest thing in the world. And so did a lot of guys.
There were actually a few guys who made a move on her while we were going out. She always resisted it and told me about it at some point, since she knew I could get kind of jealous.
We were super excited when we got into the same college, and didn't even consider going anywhere else. She loved to read so it was no surprise when she picked English as a major. I was always terrible with words and most people, so I picked engineering which seemed like a good fit.
I moved into a 4-person apartment and she moved into the freshman dorms. She spent lots of time at my place that semester, since the dorms were dirty and old. The only downside of this was that I had to share a room with a random roommate, so we didn't have the privacy that a young horny couple craves. We did have sex, but it was not very often, and usually in a hurry so that my roommate wouldn't walk in on us.
My roommate - let's call him Jake - was my first friend in college. He was really funny and confident, which made people want to be around him. He made friends like it was nothing, and whenever we went out he was the life of the party.
Him and Mary had a chemistry that was undeniable. The first time they met, they just sat there and talked for hours. I barely even joined the conversation because they were so fast going back and forth with their witty one-liners and banter. It was fun to watch and I was used to it, so I didn't think twice about it. I was glad they were getting along, because Mary came over almost every day.
Sometimes Mary would even come over when I wasn't at the apartment, just to hang out with my roommates. I thought this was weird at first, but I mean they were all friends so I wasn't going to stop them from hanging out just because I wasn't there.
What did really bother me is when I was hanging out alone with Mary (usually watching a movie in my room), and she would ask if we could go join Jake and my roommates in the living room. I liked hanging out with her alone, and it was frustrating that she would rather hang out with friends than cuddle with me.
One time it was really bad and I almost started a fight with her about it. We were laying in my bed watching a movie, and I started to tickle her leg under the blanket. This was my not-so-subtle way of trying to get her horny enough to make out. After a couple of minutes she wasn't responding at all, so I moved my hand up on her thigh and was about to start playing with her panties when she grabbed my hand and pushed it off. She seemed agitated but I couldn't tell why. She stood up pretty abruptly and said I'm gonna go hang with your roommates. She threw on some sweatpants and was out the door in an instant. I had no idea why she was upset. She didn't really seem like she was in the mood, but I had never seen her react like that.