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xXMister_TXx
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 154
Germany

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absolutely love them, in fact, my girlfriend is one that should say everything.
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absolutely love them as a matter of fact my girlfriend is a shemale and let's just say it's going great. I knew about it right when I met her and even when she repeatedly asked if this is really what I wanted I kept telling her I do want her and that won't change
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love it did it a couple of times and it's fantastic especially with my girlfriend, who is a transexual by the way. I love when she's giving me a blowjob while he hard cock is dangling in front of my face
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well I've been talking to her some more over the last couple of days and she seems really submissive which I kinda like. She says she's open to anything I want and wants to please me. She also proposed the idea of changing it up and fucking me instead. She'd like to dress me up in a garter belt and stockings and then fuck my ass. I was kind of shocked at this at first but then I warmed up to the idea. I think it's a way to show her how much I love her to let her do that to me and who knows I may enjoy it just as much. What are your opinions on this situation?
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next year I will definately celebrate this. Then again, with the way my girl likes pleasing me it can be steak&BJ day every day biggrin
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Quote by Metilda
This leaves me wondering about a lot of things:

I cannot understand how someone can be a virgin, for example, at the age of 18. How different were their relationships from mine? How different would I have been as a person if sex didn't dominate my life and all the things I do? . . . As a result, none of my characters will ever be virgins.


Or those who aren't virgins, but decide to wait to get to know the person. I can't imagine doing 'things' together and not having sex. It seems impossible for me to do so. Thus, my 'relationship building writing techniques' suck and often, when doing so, the character has sex on the brain 24/7 - though I don't imagine everyone goes around thinking about it like that.


I can help you out with the virgin part. I've been a virgin until just 2 months ago so I've been one until I was 19 years old. Doesn't have anything to do with a certain way of thinking or anything it's just I never got the opportunity to have sex. I only had one serious relation ship in high school for 3 years and she was one of those people who don't want sex before mariage. After that I had no girlfriends or anybody who wanted sex with me for that matter
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so I do have a question. I just met a beautiful trnasexual girl and we've been dating for a while and we are actually a couple now. I've never been with a transexual before and even though I often phantasized about it I got no idea what to do. Do you guys have any idea on what to do when we do have sex?
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I'd go so far and say I do have a lingerie ftish. there are moments when I prefer a sexy woman wearing lingerie to her being naked. To me, if she's wearing lingerie she thought a lot about the time you will spend together and she picked out a sexy outfit just to please you and nobody else and that in itself is a great feeling. I even went so far as wearing the lingerie myself
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I have been watched before while fucking a nice woman. Don't see what's so bad about it when I'm having sex I'm busy and don't really care or notice what is going on around me
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to be honest she just has to ask and I have to like how she looks. If I'm just the slightest bit attracted to her I'll fuck her. Of course like everyone I do have my preferences but which guys seriously says no and means it when a girl asks him to fuck (provided she isnt ugly or overweight as hell and even then some guys would go for it)

I'm not one of those guys who needs to have a deep connection to her, needs to have serious conversations or anything like that. She can be a bitch all she wants if I get to fuck her let her be a bitch. I'm a guy who can easily seperate an emotional connection to a girl from just wanting to have sex with her
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Quote by Jack_42
I'll never be muscled or tall and don't have a problem with it however to my surprise I've seen statements by women saying they like a guy to have a bit of a paunch and sometimes even be slightly grubby like the odd dirty finger nail etc that this is even sexy. Now this doesn't give me a sudden urge to develop these characteristics or anything but I am interested in knowing if any ladies do find this appealing. I forget who said this but it was some young modern female star talking to a girl reporter who agreed with her.


The last girl I've had sex with actually said she likes it if her man is a bit on the chubby side when I mentioned I'm not as fit as I would like to be
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now I think we have to seperate what being attracted means. Is it an "I want to have sex with him now" type of being attracted then yes looks are important. The girls I talked to and asked what they like in a man is he should be tall, well defined, some like their men with beard others prefer them shaved. Me, I'd consider myself average I do work out and have well defined arms and legs but I do have a problem in the stomach and waist area I've been overweight for pretty much my entire life and I don't think that will change naytime soon like I might lose weight but I will never have a six-pack or anything like that. I got used to that though and don't think it should be a factor on why a woman would say no
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this is a guy answering here but I have BEEN complimented on mine. It wasn't so much the size as I'm just average but they still complimented me on it. Some couldn't even explain what it is they liked about it when I asked them they just did
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personally absolutely hate the thought of me or other people abusing women. Sex something that you can't do alone and it is important that you both want it. If I see that my partner isn't enjoying it I'm not satisfied either. I love pleasuring my woman and making her feel good, I like to make her feel desired by me and if that's not the case it's not worth it
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I'd say let them do it if you're ok with it but don't leave them alone you can watch them or even take part in the action. Trust is a big thing in a relationship and it should be no problem if you can seperate what's love and what is simply having sex

I lost my virginity in such a situation I knew a friend who is 35 and his wife is 33. They live in a very open relationship in that they allow each other to have sex with others as long as they tell them about it. To cut this story short he talked to her about my situation and she was fine with having sex with me and it ended up well for all of us. Of course I agreed to let him watch us and we still see each other
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alright guys thanks for the replies so far it's nice to get some support on what has been a difficult subject for me for so long. I guess I said it was long overdue because of all the stupid jokes at my expense like "You get a girl in bed before you start talking about it" and things like that it was very depressing. Not being a virgin anymore also helped in my social life whenever I see or talk to a pretty girl I don't immediately think I wanna have sex with her now...ok who am I kidding that still happens enough but for other reasons lol

you guys are right though the woman I've been with was older that me, I was 19 and she was 33 and she was very understanding and helped me along while being patient. Then again she also said I did pretty well and she didn't even know I still was a virgin xD
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ok guys and girls I'd like to get some tips from you. I just recently lost my virginity a little over a month ago. I have to say it was pretty good although very overdue (I'm 19). I did have some problems though . First of all I had a little problem staying hard the whole time and in the end it just wouldn't get up again which was very frustrating. I'm thinking that might have been the alcohol though I did drink a lot both times I had sex so I may try staying sober next time. Another thing was whenever something went wrong I got nervous and it went downhill from there. So pretty much I'd like to get some tips from you on how to get more comfortable, make the whole thing more enjoyable for both and maybe even share some tricks to really get a woman off
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some examples in german:

fick dich!
verpiss dich!
hau ab!
zieh leine!
verschwinde!
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The only pleasure I'd get out of it is punching him in the face if dares to touch her
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1.yes I do

2.I just talk to him/her/them and possibly meet up if both sides are interested. The way I see it they are at risk and decide how they take it I just go along.

3.No I don't aslong as it's just over the internet cheating involves physical contact. In fact, I met a nice couple in an open relationship that allowed me to participate in their life and I had sex with both
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it's great knowing you are pleasuring her like this and I think it's only fair we men like getting oral service so I like giving it back. I think many people also underestimate how effective it is in giving your woman amazing orgasms so you dont just need your cock
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I like to switch it's best of both worlds but with a nice CD or TV I like to top
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I'd like it just depends on the character and how she pulls it off I always had a thing for final fantasy girls like yuna or rikku