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5 Dec 2020

Quote by Daddy_Bamboo
I've picked up writing erotica only recently, last time I did it was when I was a young horny teen writing sexy stories on loose sheets of papers to pass them to friends.

I stopped because I realized that I didn't know much about actual sex and that my stories felt like they were written by a virginal teenager (because they were). Cue to 5 years later, I'm back writing smut, I'm a better writer, but the rest didn't change. I have no sexual experience, and I often feel complexed, as a writer, about the erotic scenes in my stories. Since I have never experienced anything other than my hand and a few accessories, it's always odd for me to describe intercourse. I'm either just guessing or referring myself to the large amount of erotica I've consumed along the years. I'm perfectly able to write about what turns me on... but describing sex? For now I think so far so good, but I'm always afraid I'll eventually write something wrong or inaccurate and take the readers out of my story.

I wonder if anyone feels similarly? For the experienced authors out there, do you feel like your writing has improved exponentially in relation to the quality/variety of your sexual experiences, or does it have barely any effect on your writing? I want to know if my worries are justified or not.

And for any unexperienced authors out there... do you feel the same way?

The only connection I see between the quality of my writing (which I leave to readers to decide) and my personal sexual experiences is in my ability to convey certain feelings and experiences, which is to say I haven't had a whole lot of experience. Imagination is more important, in my opinion. As far as the quality of the writing itself, sentence to sentence, paragraph to paragraph, one has nothing to do with the other. I write erotica because it is a safe(r) outlet for me and it keeps my writing sharpish between other projects.

We all want different things. I want content that is as believable (as defined by the context) as it is arousing--if a male character of mine 'oops' surprises a female character with anal, she's not going to be happy about it, for example. Most women (in my experience) don't relish the thought of bathing in cum. If someone confronts her in a dark alley, she is going to be frightened, not secretly aroused. Put yourself in the shoes of your character. Remember that what you see on pornhub is not real life. Ask questions. (You're welcome to ask me via PM. I'm a pretty open gal.) Read about the sexual experiences of men and women who have experiences. Most importantly, use your imagination!

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21 Nov 2020

Quote by JamesLlewellyn

Good to know! Not that it's ever going to matter to me… ;)

I'm intrigued by your quest. Do you have in mind an ending for this story? I would truly like to know when it's published.

Take care,
James

For the moment I'm considering a series of loosely connected or independent stories in the same setting. There is a supernatural element to the story, which enables women to become the dominant gender. I'll probably focus on that part first, to give this part context. So, no real endings, just a series of personal decisions and consequences.

Currently, I'm writing a short story about a guy who, while enjoying a cappuccino at a cafe, discovers an open bluetooth connection to a stealth vibe.

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19 Nov 2020

Quote by JamesLlewellyn
And I also find it fascinating that it is almost exclusively men who are commenting…

I made this observation as well. Thank you for your comments, I appreciate them. You've given me some good points to think about. As a woman I can say thickness is more important than length, at least for me. I'm one of those rare birds that can get where I need to go by vaginal alone, if my partner has the stamina.

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19 Nov 2020

Thanks everyone for the input. I'm still working on this idea but it is more in the development stages.

What I am considering is a future setting that is based in an analog of a high school/college prep, with the exception that the students reach their majority age (the age of legal consent) by their junior year. This is expressly so that the female students can begin to express their dominance in an appropriate and relatively safe environment. Male students are under intense pressure to conform, but at the same time to resist the advances of the female students while preserving their 'purity'. Men are seen as slaves to their passions. Rather than physically weaker, physical strength is seen as inferior to emotional strength. Men are not allowed to touch women without express consent, even if the woman touches them first. Aggression toward women is a capital offense.

Males are under hyper-scrutiny as far as dress and grooming (thanks, Spooge!), with dress varying from formal suits to kilts. (The idea here is that men who are still virgins are allowed to wear pants. Unmarried men who are not virgins must wear kilts, wraps, or some type of skirt, signifying that they have surrendered control of their bodies. If a woman claims to have laid a man, it is assumed to be true; a man's testimony is invalid.) Intelligence and submissiveness are prime qualities, as is physical strength. Penis size isn't emphasized or all that important. Smaller cocks (not micro-penises) are considered more aesthetically pleasing, whereas big cocks are frowned upon. Men who lose their virginity lose social status, especially if the woman who took their virginity dismisses them, which isn't unusual. When this happens, some men turn to various modifications and enhancements, from the aforementioned cock and modifications to various types of plastic surgeries, all in an attempt to gain the attention of women.

Women are allowed to be brash. They aren't under the same pressure to by hyper-groomed, and are encouraged to sow their wild oats. Girls will be girls. Missionary position is extremely . Woman on top is standard. Fellatio is , whereas cunnilingus is prized. It isn't uncommon for girls to talk openly about which guys 'put out'.

That's the general idea, with a dose of the supernatural sprinkled on top.

What do you think?

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1 Nov 2020

Hi all.

First of all, this is my first post on this site, so...hi!

Okay, down to business smile

I'm working on a story in which women are the dominant gender. In this setting, men are primarily seen through a physical lens. That is, what they can offer to women physically and sexually and not much else. They have few, if any, rights in society, and most women would never consider a romantic relationship with one. Men are vehicles for reproduction and sexual gratification. They are useful in other ways, but that is the gist. Many men, if not the majority, will never have an opportunity to have sex with a woman--even completely one-sided sex. Missionary position is highly . A woman would never let a man be on top. Fellatio is practically unheard of, outside of same-sex unions. Therefore, there is competition among them to gain the attention of whatever woman they can. Men, particularly young men, who are seduced by women are labeled sluts, whereas young women are encouraged to sew their wild oats. Girls will be girls, after all.

My question is, how would men dress and groom in order to up their chances of attracting the attention of the superior sex? How would clothing be used to control them? (Specifically, I'm thinking of how men used high heels, bodices, dresses that restricted movement, and the like to control women, and how these garments became sexualized, even fetishized, by both men and women.) I welcome a variety of views, even contradictory ones, as this society is far from homogeneous. I will say, however, that by 'sexualize' I do not mean 'feminize' or even emasculate. Generally, men would be forbidden to wear clothing that makes them appear feminine, just as women in past times were forbidden to dress like men. This is a discussion of the hyper-sexualization of the masculine form, and the extent to which men would go to draw the right (or any) kind of attention. Men, what do you think? Women, in this kind of setting, how would you dress your man?

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