Hi Men of Lush!!! I need some input from you, and the ladies as well if they have any!!!
I have been with my husband since I was 14, well on and off during HS but for the most part on. We've been married 12 yrs. Threw them years I put on some weight here and there with pregnancies, a back surgery, quitting smoking. I never got HUGE, I never had to shop in the plus size department but compared to what I once was, I was pretty big. In the last 2 months though I have lost 26 pounds. My husband hasn't really said a word except one morning while in my night gown I bent over in front of him to pick something up off the floor and he said "Wow, Honey, your butt is getting smaller!" I turned around smiled and said thank you with a chuckle and gave him a kiss.
That has been it. Nothing more. I work in a predominately male work environment and all of them have noticed and all of them make comments like Wow you are really looking hot. And things like that, this happens on a daily basis just about. Why hasn't he really said anything to me? I am not only losing this weight for myself but also for him. I want to be sexy and hot for him. When I weigh in weekly I will say to him 2 more pounds gone honey! Or whatever the scale said. He says "Good Job Honey" but never remarks about my changing body. Nor did he remark about my changing body when I put this weight on either though... Well, nope he did, my boobs got HUGE, bigger then usual, I am usually a C, they were a D. HE LOVED IT! lol.
I have asked him about this and he says "Well I see you everyday" Well ok, but so do the men at work and they still notice.
I am so frustrated....... it isn't 5 pounds were talking here.... lol.
Thank you!!!
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vdub725
Over 90 days ago
Female, 50
United States
Forum
I have only played around kissing, touching threw clothes. I would however love to take it further but do not even know how to go about that.?? My husband knows about my desire and is ok with it. But honestly I do not know what where how to go about it.... it is pretty frustrating I must admit. I do not think it is like picking up a guy..... is it? I am so lost. Lol.