Okay a serious question.
As one gets older, the body does not respond the way it used to.
My partner is in her early 50's, and in terrific physical shape, exercises does yoga, pilates, weights etc.
BUT along with a loss of lubrication (since menopause) there is a loss of muscle tightness, if you know what I mean.
You know what, sex s not as much a problem for me, as it is for her.
I go for a long time, since there is not adequate stimulation, to orgasm.
She can't understand why I don't cum, and perhaps feels less womanly, since I end up finishing myself off by hand, afterwards.
Yes she is not as tight as she used to be. I'm not really convinced that, since she is already doing a lot of exercise/yoga etc. that there is anything she can do about it.
I am not going anywhere and love her a lot.
I think it might simply just make her feel bad, if I raised the subject, so I have not made any plans to do so.
Still I get the questions, every time, why I didn't cum, and kind of feel bad telling the "white lie."
Should I figure out a way to tell her, or keep it to myself? I don't really want to hurt her feelings.