Quote by tjames
We are having a Formal Collaring, I'm wording it this way because All of our guests are vanilla. It's going to be closer to a wedding type of situation. so what I'd like is to find a poem or something that would help all our guests understand the what the collaring means to us, the commitment to each other. any help would be appreciated.ALDwJM7d5skEDVpz

well we are fairly new to this lifestyle so this may sound a liitle strange. I can't speak for my master but for me I have been married and in several serious relationships so i can't say i've never loved anouther man. But through those other men I've had to fight for every bit of independance and control in my life. I've love and wanted my master for 8 years without his knowledge so when i did fight for him and get him to be with me i wanted to give him the one thing i've never freely given to anyone...absolute trust faith love and the control over my life that i have fought so hard for. I give all that and more to my master. i hope that makes sense to someone. as for my master I think that he is still in awe that i want to give these to him. sometimes when we're drinking he lets his guard down and lets his shock show through that i came to him with the idea of changing the dinamics of our relationship. It's been two years and we are both happier than we have ever been and want to share that and celebrate that with our friends and family who don't understand any of it.