For the metal spatula I use the one from ikea it's with robber and it's great… for cooking course
But the best thing and I don’t know if you have it is what we call Krembo
It's with chocolate cover and cream inside 5 sec' in the micro and then taking the biscuit out putting it over the male object and have fun!!! you can freeze it as well
Well for me all off the above however,
I'm more in the "woman in front position", on top, and then on 4, (it's something like an upgrade for the doggy position).
And for sure the "she on my shoulders with my face with tongue between her legs and my hand's on her breasts " position is good as well.
And b.t.w. hi I'm new here….