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tessera
Over 90 days ago
Fluid Female, 155
United States

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Yes, but not often, because my then-partner and I liked the water at such different temperatures.
Secret from who? I mean, I don't go around telling people that I like being beaten until I'm purple and it hurts to sit down for days. It would be pretty weird to volunteer something like that. But it's not exactly a secret?
I was feeling super uncomfortable about my body a few years ago and arranged for a boudoir shoot to help me turn my body image around. I'm really happy with the pics that came out of it, including this one.
Yes. For me it's THE toy. It may be big and unsexy looking, but it has the power to bring mind-blowing orgasms, so who cares?
It's not a closeup so it might be a little tricky, but that's definitely me in the photo.
If you count people I'd talked to on the internet, only as long it took to strip down and get situated. Otherwise, 15-20 minutes.
My first clothes were online from Torrid closeout items. My first in-person clothes were a couple of outfits from Catherine's (a plus size store). They weren't really anything sexy, I just was looking for clothes I could wear.
I'm a transitioned trans woman rather than a CD, so I have hormones working in my favor. For me it's when my boobs are being played with or sucked. They're incredibly sensitive now, it's great.
I don't have a private bath so I wear a nightgown for when I have to use the bathroom. But nothing else.
Ropes. And good quality hemp ropes are great, silk seems a bit excessive.

A good Dominant can do so many more things with ropes than just tie your hands up.
I've definitely known crossdressers who had a dominant side, but I feel like sissies in particular are a submissive archetype
20 years seems too much younger for me. 10 years is ok, but mostly I like older women
When life gets busy and you have too many other things going on, it can be hard to sustain D/s. In a calmer period of your life in the future, you may find that it feels right again.
When I was 45 I had sex with a guy who was 70, so 25 years.
I am a trans woman, and I have had sex with other trans women