In no particular order....
1. Abusive (emotional or physically)
2. Arrogant and Selfish
3. Poor hygiene
4. Shorter than me
5. Lack of spontaneity
That's not even the kind of question I have to think about. First off any man that can and will cook gets major points, that is a huge turn on for me. And taking the effort to do it yourself and make it special and romantic with the flowers and candles is way more of a turn on then taking me out to a restaurant. Anyone could do that. Nope a dinner in is way more likely to get you lucky in my books.