I really like the attitudes of the two ladies that have responded :-) They, like my wife, get that it is not intended to be insulting to her, but is instead a compliment. I love my wife, think she is totally sexy, and if I ever have a study instead of a man cave, I will have some of her pictures printed in poster-size to frame and decorate the walls with. Those will be some pictures I don't have to be nagged to hang too!
Back to my reasoning...If I had ever promised not to show her pictures to anyone, or if she had objected the first time I did, I would keep my word. My profile pic would be a selfie of me, and I would be another 'No, because she doesn't want me to'. She didn't though, and she enjoyed hearing about their reactions and catching them looking when they were around. She likes the attention, and has no issues with being seen nude by anyone.
I just wanted to say thank you ladies, and to offer a different perspective to those that find this disrespectful.
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strokenit
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 53
0 miles · Ocala
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We're kind of an odd case to begin with, so I can understand how difficult it maybe for some / most to be able to get this sort of material.
My wife and I lived in Europe for a long time, and really adapted to the culture. We used to go to the saunas a lot, wich are both nude and coed. We also went to the nude beaches / lakes as often as the weather would allow, so she was okay with being seen.
We spent a lot of time in a long distance relationship due to careers, and when together, was more than happy to provide 'relief material' for the times apart.
My wife and I lived in Europe for a long time, and really adapted to the culture. We used to go to the saunas a lot, wich are both nude and coed. We also went to the nude beaches / lakes as often as the weather would allow, so she was okay with being seen.
We spent a lot of time in a long distance relationship due to careers, and when together, was more than happy to provide 'relief material' for the times apart.
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My wife knows that I love to show her off, and knows a few of my friends have seen pics of her nude. She doesn't ask questions about it, and is okay with it.
A couple of friends have even seen some of the home movies, and I really enjoyed them seeing her private, intimate side. I have also had the pleasure of seeing some friend's wives too, so I am really curios what the overall average is among us.
Have you showed pics or vids of your wife (sticking with wife here, GF doesn't count) off to real life friends? If so, to what extent? If not, why?
A couple of friends have even seen some of the home movies, and I really enjoyed them seeing her private, intimate side. I have also had the pleasure of seeing some friend's wives too, so I am really curios what the overall average is among us.
Have you showed pics or vids of your wife (sticking with wife here, GF doesn't count) off to real life friends? If so, to what extent? If not, why?
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Wife: Would love to, but she's not into watching. I love watching her do it though ;-)
Stranger: Assuming that you mean stranger of the opposite sex to distinguish between this answer and the next, I would love to ;-)
Guy: I love it under the right conditions. 2 married guys with the house to ourselves, lots of beer, and out comes the wife porn. There's nothing like shamelessly enjoying seeing another's wife and/or watching someone enjoy mine ;-)
Stranger: Assuming that you mean stranger of the opposite sex to distinguish between this answer and the next, I would love to ;-)
Guy: I love it under the right conditions. 2 married guys with the house to ourselves, lots of beer, and out comes the wife porn. There's nothing like shamelessly enjoying seeing another's wife and/or watching someone enjoy mine ;-)
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I have given this a lot of thought myself. I had a few straight MMF 3somes before I met my wife, and enjoyed them all. All were different, and for different reasons. Once was because my roommate was in a dry spell, and I asked the slut I brought home for the night if she wanted to be doubled up on. Another was a husband and wife that were in a rut, and asked me to join them. You get the gist.
I have often fantasized about another joining my wife and I, and would love to watch them to begin with. I would probably take some pics or video, but I would be watching before joining in. In the other cases, there was almost no voyeurism involved, but this is almost exclusively at first. Why the difference?
For me, it was kind of that three phase deal: Not wanting to think about her sex life before me, accepting that even though she wasn't a slut or anything, there were very few 1st's to experience together, and finally acceptance becomes curiosity and wondering what she was like with them. Since her first home movies were with me, the only way to fill that curiosity is with another.
I don't know if it applies to you, but that's how I came to my fantasy of doubling up on my wife.
I have often fantasized about another joining my wife and I, and would love to watch them to begin with. I would probably take some pics or video, but I would be watching before joining in. In the other cases, there was almost no voyeurism involved, but this is almost exclusively at first. Why the difference?
For me, it was kind of that three phase deal: Not wanting to think about her sex life before me, accepting that even though she wasn't a slut or anything, there were very few 1st's to experience together, and finally acceptance becomes curiosity and wondering what she was like with them. Since her first home movies were with me, the only way to fill that curiosity is with another.
I don't know if it applies to you, but that's how I came to my fantasy of doubling up on my wife.