Quote by ali2teaseu
The issue isn't just love. There are many things that come into play and, from personal experience, I can say that the third party's feelings are also a factor. Hubby and I experiented once had a MFM with a close friend and while we were concerned about how we would feel about things "the morning after," we really hadn't considered our friend. Actually, we felt safe because of our friendship but he took it so much to heart that we had to end our friendship of almost 20 years. There is no right answer - it depends on a lot of different things and sometimes you just can't plan what will happen. Careful what you ask for!