I'm coming to the conclusion that a large percentage of the female population are looking for dominate men and then complain when they aren't interested in going south for her pleasure.
Did it for years without thinking about it. If I didn't satisfy her then I need to dive in and get to work. Yum yum
Sorry mans perspective here.
Primarily in charge but rarely over the top. i like to be passionate while still being the man. In the past I've been with women who need to be truly dominated by "large" alpha males. Depending on the look in her eye and my comfort level I've allowed them to feed those desires, from time to time.
So I'm not really "dominate" and I'm definitely not submissive. I just want my woman to be pleased in all the ways she desires.
Man out.