How did you get interested in BDSM? - I met a man who told me he had submissive tendencies, so I did some research. It was fascinating, exciting, sometimes scary, but always fascinating.
What factor of it attracted you to it in the first place? - I wasn't aware that I was attracted to it until I started delving into it. I think the most attractive part is the trust involved. The responsibility that you assume when engaging in either taking control of someone or giving over control of yourself.
Where you always submissive? - Never really thought so. I do like a man who can be slightly aggressive in bed, but not too much so. Not too rough, but some.
Where you always dominate? - Again, I didn't think so, but am finding that I get aroused by being the aggressor.
Where you always switch? - I think this is mostly where I fall. A give and take of power and control. With the right person, with trust, it can be a heady experience.
If so how did you come about it? - Hmmmm, always with the one that introduced me to this, depending on our mood and where the evening takes us.
Do you think you were always into it now that you are in the lifestyle? - No, but that doesn't mean I'm not willing to explore.
Bonus question: What have you learned about it and what do you like the most? - I'm still learning and it's all very new to me. I would say what I like the most is finding someone that you can trust enough to be that vulnerable, open and honest with.