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slowride454
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 48
United States

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Quote by IMPÜRETHOUGHTS






I don't know why you didn't dip out. If she's so unhappy you break it off you don't wait around.

To be honest, these sort of threads sound hella sketchy why i never take them seriously.




I'm staying for my son. I'm guessing she is too??? Also, she is almost completely dependent on me financially. She is disabled, hence all the medication which we are guessing killed her sex drive. IDK??? She says she gets horny sometimes and will use her bullet every couple months when nobody is home. I asked what she fantasizes about and she said nothing, she needs to get the job done. Which is funny, because that is how she was when we were trying to have our son. She even said once during sex... "What are you doing? Trying to have fun? Hurry up!" In her teens and early 20's before we met, she was pretty wild and would have multiple boyfriends strung along picking the one who had the better deal for the night. It wasn't uncommon for her to fuck 3 or 4 different guys in a week. She would blow guys for fun. stuff like that. That's part of why I liked her. I was freaky too and had too many girlfriends who were sheltered and once I opened them up they would go exploring. I wanted someone who had already explored and was comfortable with themselves. Just a few days ago we talked about our lack of sex life again. Basically she said she had sex for people to like her. She knows I love her, so she doesn't need to do it. Good logic I guess.
Quote by IMPÜRETHOUGHTS



This type of thread is always one to be remade by husbands but have you ever thought that may be she didn't lose her sex drive but instead is no longer sexually attracted to you?






I've asked her many times, as recently as a few days ago if she wasn't attracted to me anymore and would like to have relations with anyone else. She said it's not that. She just doesn't want to do it anymore. I seriously doubt she ever was attracted to me anyway. I'm not attractive and never was in the past. I'm average looks at best, have a tiny penis, and don't make all that much money. She also is very disappointed in the amount of money I make because I can't afford to buy her a new house.
good luck. My wife lost her sex drive many years ago. Same situation basically. Her medications ruined it for her along with her body changing and generally the married wife mentality. We've talked about it and she just doesn't care. She had sex with me to get me. Now she has me and doesn't need to. I haven't gotten a BJ in at least 15 years. We've been married for 18 years. Sex happens maybe once a year if the mood catches her right and she isn't pissed off at me. Counseling did not work for us. It always became combative whenever the counselor would even hint at taking me side on any issue, whether it was money or sex. The good thing for me is she doesn't care that I watch porn and jerk off. In fact that has always been her thing if I started anything with her. She would tell me to go away and take care of it myself. She's told me I make her feel dirtyon a few occasions when I did try touching her years ago now. I've given up. OP, If I was in your situation, I'd be laying pipe as often as I could. Sorry for the bad advice.