Hello everyone. I'm Susan. I'm a 50-something woman, living my best life...or at least trying to. I'm widowed, but have a partner now. I'm a mother and grandmother. I am the epitome of proper and vanilla...on the outside. Behind the proverbial closed doors, I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for nearly a decade now, which I know would come as a total shock to nearly everyone who knows me. Started out totally by accident, but looking back it may have been serendipity. I might have to write a story about it sometime.

Couple things I've learned already out here...

• please don't send a friend request if we haven't chatted some

• don't bother PMing me if you expect me to respond - chat with me in the room

• disappointed I have to be a member to leave comments on pics. Anyone know a way around that?

• don't invite me to a private room without having chatted some first.

Basically, I'm here to have fun and enjoy the mental stimulation that can come from being out here. Leave the drama at the door for the next person to deal with.