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Ok, first I am not a guy and therefore will not speak for them but I can add my own thoughts on this matter. As a woman who enjoys anal I can say the sensation and experience is completely different than that of vaginal intercourse. So, if I am getting such a different experience, it only stands to reason that my partner is also experiencing different sensations and pressures in new or not as familiar areas. I can also say I was told by one lover that he loved when I used a vibe inside while he was making love to me anally because he could feel that vibe on his length as well. Anal with him was amazing!! However, it requires a degree of control for the man OR IT CAN BE QUITE PAINFUL for the woman. If you don't believe your partner has that degree of control and you are not into pain, DON'T DO IT. It is that simple. One last note: a glass of wine before also helps to relax. Go slow, lots of lube and most of all have fun.PTZQ7soewEWL0xUi