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sexi_virgin25
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 36
United States

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Quote by xXshunikaXx
So recently my boyfriend and I have been getting a little more adventurous. We've tried out nearly all of our kinkiest fantasies but their is one he keeps saying no too, and that's my fantasy that I'm masturbating over another guy fucking him in the ass reverse cowboy style. I have fucked him up the ass with various dildos a lot of times and I have been with another girl while he masturbated over us and then joined in, and I want this fantasy in reverse. He keeps saying no and it's frustrating me as I have said yes and done everyone of his fantasy's. Every time I ask he changes the subject instantly, and I think I might start denying him sex with me until he says yes. I'd never tell anyone about it afterwards. Can anyone suggest something here that would get him to go through with it? Would you go through with it?


Aren't you afraid that he might like it a little too much?
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I have notice lately that a lot of people that are into the BDSM scene, and swinger lifestyle are all white, and black males. I have yet seen a black women such as myself be involved into the scene. I wonder why is that? Part of me is thinking they most not be into black women, and another part of me wonder do black women wants to be involved in that lifestyle anyways?

But I guess for now I stick to my stories.
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You are generalizing. I agree that there are probably a lot of guys that are gay that would rather call themselves bi-sexual but the way you worded it made it sound like all bi males are gay but wont admit it. Some of my friends are bi and I know for a fact that they like both women and men.


Well that's your friends. But generally speaking most bi men will admit to being gay later on in life. That's why they have long lasting trusting monogamous relationships with men, is because they have everything they need in a man.
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Quote by Pretzel


who say's they don't like women? I think that is what makes them bisexual? they like both.


Most of them don't. They say they are bi because of fear, or boredom. Most bisexual men especially the married ones, will always crave cock, and a woman does not have a cock, so therefore a bisexual man needs to admit that he's gay instead.
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That is an interesting question, that I would like to see the response, but I got another interesting question for bisexual men. How come you guys won't admit to being gay instead of saying that you are bisexual? You would think that if a man that loves cock and men so much, he would be gay instead of messing around with someone he does not like at all.
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Quote by anonymous1526
i have cheated 3 times in my relationship, let me tell you, its down to the fact that relationships get BORING, and i find the other people through work or people i already know, and yes, i would do it again, i say what you dont know dont hurt you! i mean, im not planning to leave my partner anytime soon so these guys are just thrills and excitement for me, just to get me through the boredom of my relationship, you may say leave him but he is a safety for me and a good catch so i just entertain myself other ways....


why not have an open relationship?
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The title says it basically. I am asking the question just out of curiosity, and it would be interesting getting different peoples input and reasons why they would or would not date a bisexual man.
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Is it me or the whole male population is slowly turning gay by the generation? I bet within a 100 years every male on the face of the planet will be gay.
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It was probably when I was when the guy picked me up at my house in a really nice car. I was of course impressed by this....Anyway, we went out and he insisted we park BEHIND the restaurant we went to where there weren't even parking spaces..I found this a little odd and then dismissed the thought and just assumed he didn't want his car stolen or damaged, or something. Well, while he was driving me home we got pulled over. Ended up that the guy stole the car....I had to go to the police station and then get another ride home....he still tries contacting me...


OH MY GOD! Don't fool with that guy. If he stole a car, god knows what else he is doing illegally. Lucky enough you live in Ireland, Over here in some states of America, you would go down as a accomplice.
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Quote by Lavish
Kept going on about his ex. How annoying.
It wasn't just dropping her name in here and there either, it was constantly dribbling about her. How she used him, how she made him weary of women ect.
Honestly, get over it. Why even ask me out if you have this new found fear of women? I would have much prefered to be sitting in a bar with my friends than listen to this all night.

He also kept sending his food back where we were eating too, I have no issue with this if there is a problem with the food but he was just being difficult and rude to the waiting staff. I kind of hoped they somehow tarnished his food with a bodily fluid after being so mean to them.

The drive back to my house was a nightmare too, he drove way too fast and was abusive to the car in front (Who had a family inside) and kept driving up their arse. I hoped maybe the husband would stop his car, get out and give this guy a bit of slap but no, so this poor family had this deranged ape of a man continually critising his safe driving.

Needless to say I changed my phone number to stop any texts coming through from him and refused the offer of a second night out with him.


When you mention the drive home. Is the exact reason why I never get into a car with a man when we are going on a date. I prefer to meet up with him, and when everything said and done we can go our separate ways. But there are other reasons why I don't let men come and pick me on a date, especially at my home.
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Quote by DrHouse
I'm a bi guy and have been for a while. I'm with a woman now, but I love me a nice cock. It's all about preference, but I love anal play - especially being fucked. It's a huge turn-on and, quite frankly, incredibly satisfying. I've never had a better orgasm.


then why are you with a woman, if being with a man is more satisfying?
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Well this thread did not surprise me at all when most guys said they would want a bad girl over a good girl because they can be boring. But what I don't understand is the fact that most guys get offended when girls say they want a bad boy over a nice guy. I have seen many threads on different sites of guys ranting about how nice they are, and they can't get the girl they want. These usually be smoking hot girls that know and can get what they want, and that have lots of attitude. the nice guys always fail at looking for a good girl, and they wonder why good women are so hard to find, or they all chalk women up into no good dirty whores category. This is one reason why some men have no idea what they want in a woman, and another reason why men are so confusing to me.

So I guess in the dating world, I would classify myself as the "The Boring Good Girl:That Have Been Told That She's A Major Skinny Bitch Sometimes." I have never had a problem getting a date or getting a man to pay for my drinks at the bar, the only problem is I can't get rid of them after they paid they for my drinks and it get's tiring.

I am a virgin at an old age. I am a huge fan of the Harry Potter series, The Batman Series, Christopher Nolan, and Quentin Taratino. I play guitar a little, I hate politics, the only sports that I watch is ballet, and Rhythmic gymnastics. And Oh I sale adult novelty toys on the side to get some extra cash.

So yeah I guess some men would find me boring.
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I would also like to bring up the fact, that if the guy gets lost all the time in the city he lives in, and we are supposed to meet up on a date and he can't find the place, that is another bad date bingo.
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Quote by TrouserSnake
I sometimes wonder if being attracted to younger girls is like being addicted to crack. Always chasing that 1st crack-hit (so i've heard). Those initial experiences with sex are often seared into memory, serving as a yardstick for future interactions. (ie. 1st blow job, etc.) Just postulating here. I admit recalling similar memories with great fondness ;)


WHAT?
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then he had a burger hanging out his nose


What kind of burger was it? Double Whopper or McRoyal?


Why? it doesn't matter it's still disgusting, and are you making fun of me?
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I had went out on a date with a guy who had bad breath (yuuuuucccckkkk), and he kept talking throughout the while date. then he had a burger hanging out his nose, it was sooooo disgusting that I had to pack up my food to go.

and he had the nerve to want a hug afterward.
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I love Latino men, from all creeds and colors and the women too (actually I love everybody so it doesn't really matter) but my question is do Latino men like black women?
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I really think everyone should have a good diet, and people should drink more herbal tea, along with some wonderful pot.
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Just because a girl doesn't want to talk politics doesn't mean she is dumb. I try to avoid all political conversation at all cost, because it usually ends up somebody getting mad. I dislike politics very strongly, and I feel like if I am on a date and that person will bring up something political that I have break out the advil.pw0FGfOhXyjhgLSK
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wow there needs to be more pictures of cute bitches on here. I hope people post more.