The hubby and I really had a rough year since the lockdown, and we struggled to co-exist even though we’ve been married for years now. I felt confused at how different our daily routines and rhythms are, especially since we’d been living together just as long. Then the lockdown happened and, after getting over the initial frustrations, we found a new passion for each other.
But that’s the thing - he was insatiable, and I just couldn’t keep up. Each time we would do it, I found myself needing longer and longer to feel like doing it again, whereas he was ready to go straight away. I love that he’s still that attracted to me, but I eventually got to a point where I just had to say no.
I didn’t want to do it - I had to. The lockdown went on and on and it didn’t seem like it would ever end and things were getting worse. I kept trying to get him to do other things, find other ways of spending time together and do other stuff. I eventually sent him this https://programminginsider.com/what-to-do-when-you-have-no-more-shows-to-watch/. We got into a huge argument and stopped talking for a few days.
Even though we eventually talked about it and worked things out, I was curious - how many times was enough for you during lockdown? I get that most of us had to spend more time with their partners, so I was wondering if the spark was still there. I guess what I’m really curious about is - how many times would you consider “normal” for a married couple in love? Please advise!
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