Thank you to those that have pushed me quality/thoughtful advice. I truly appreciate the time and effort you've displayed. I'd write you individually but alas, being a cheapskate on here has caught up as I am not a paying member...guess that may have to change. I just need to use the almighty google to see if lush has ever been hacked etc.! Until I can thank each of you personally, this will have to suffice.
It has been 3 years since my wife have had sex and even more since we've been truly intimate. We both live high stress lives between work and kids, but I continue to work out, stay in shape etc. whereas she has let herself go. By that I mean she has gained 100lbs and doesn't find herself attractive or sexy anymore. She won't let me touch her, swears there isn't an affair, and just has no desires. We've tried counseling but no luck. I need intimacy and sex, but I really just miss passionate kisses, touches, and moments. I've resorted to reading stories here and flirting with a few select women in RL...but, I don't want to act, however there is one married lady who really is amazing and shows some interest. My wife and I love each other but the chasm between us on the physical side is making the emotional bridge that ties us together even longer and less stable.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
It has been 3 years since my wife have had sex and even more since we've been truly intimate. We both live high stress lives between work and kids, but I continue to work out, stay in shape etc. whereas she has let herself go. By that I mean she has gained 100lbs and doesn't find herself attractive or sexy anymore. She won't let me touch her, swears there isn't an affair, and just has no desires. We've tried counseling but no luck. I need intimacy and sex, but I really just miss passionate kisses, touches, and moments. I've resorted to reading stories here and flirting with a few select women in RL...but, I don't want to act, however there is one married lady who really is amazing and shows some interest. My wife and I love each other but the chasm between us on the physical side is making the emotional bridge that ties us together even longer and less stable.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!