I am married and have always enjoyed when my wife would suck my cock, but that does not happen very often. I have found recently that I enjoy it when other guys suck my cock and also enjoy sucking a nice cock as well.

I have actually had pretty good luck with DoubleList. I have connected with several guys on there that have led to hookups. Some have come to my house, some we have met in a public place like a box store or a walking trail.

My first time was as a minor, so I will not share a lot of detail. We played with each other several times and had fun.

As an adult, my first time was when I was 64 and he was 62. Very similar situations, both married and both not getting much sex at home and so decided to try playing with another guy. We jacked each other off and took turns sucking each other. Neither to completion. That happened our second time together.

I will be 66 next month. I first started experiencing an issue about six or seven months ago. I have no problem getting hard and do get hard with many different kinds of stimulation from getting it on with my wife to reading stories and watching videos online to playing around with another guy.

Where my problem comes in is while having sex with my wife, if the foreplay goes on too long without any direct stimulation of my cock, I do not maintain an erection. If I am playing her, sucking her tits or playing with her pussy for several minutes and then she wants penetration (which is not every time anymore) then I may not be hard enough and then have to sort of start again. Then sometimes by the time I am hard enough she has passed the point and is no longer in the mood. All are sort of age related issues.

If I am jacking off, even edging over a longer period of time, if there is somewhat consistent physical stimulation on my cock then I can maintain an erection for quite some time.

I have tried both Viagra and Cialis and find that while both help to retain an erection for a bit longer timeframe, they also have the side-effect of making it more difficult to ejaculate. So, six one and a half dozen of the other. Stay hard longer or cum easier, which do you want.

We are getting so hung up on terms. Fluid is a liquid that flows. Being fluid in terms of sexuality really only means that at one point a person prefers a penis to play with and another time the same person prefers a pussy and tits to play with.

I enjoy both. If I could suck my own I would probably do it everyday.

As for those that worry about sucking cock making them gay, I say that labels really do not mean anything. It is all in how you view what you are doing. In my mind, it is just sex.

Homosexuality is being attracted sexually to one's own gender. Gay has been mainly used to refer to homosexual men, while lesbian is used for homosexual women. In my mind, homosexuality can refer to the sex act itself, but also to a certain lifestyle with many other aspects.

When a heterosexual male is only interested in vaginal intercourse with a female, does anal sex make him any more or less of a heterosexual? Who knows and who cares!

I have swallowed my own many times. However, it took a while before I got the nerve to try it. I had been tasting my pre-cum for some time and thought about tasting my cum, but after cumming I sort of chickened out. Then finally one time I shot off into a plastic cup and quickly poured the contents into my mouth. I found it was not nearly as bad as I had anticipated and started doing that nearly every time I jacked off. It made for much easier clean-up!

The first time I sucked another guy was good and not so good. It was good because after many years of being curious and fantasizing about it, I finally had another man's cock in my mouth. That feeling is hard to describe.

It was not so good because the guy was not very big (which was also somewhat of a good thing) and he did not get real hard and he did not cum very much.

I was pleased because I finally had the experience, but it left me wanting for more. I have suck several more since, but have yet to find the cock I have been looking for. My cock is not huge by any means at just under 7 inches fully hard, but I have yet to hook up with a guy whose cock was as big as mine.

I love to masturbate. I have been jacking off for over 50 years. There were some years that I may have only averaged once or twice a week, but many years it is more like three or four times a week. There have been stretches of at least daily! So I would have to say that since I started I have probably jacked off between 7,500 and 10,000 times.

DoubleList is much the same as the old Craigslist.

Every time, it has been planned, from the first as a teenager to the most recent at 65.

Even though I experimented with another boy when I was a teenager, I was not really attracted to other guys. I do not recall even having another thought about doing anything sexual with another guy until after I was married. My wife an I talked about having a threesome shortly after we were married. We discussed it several times and even had chosen who we would select as the "third".

However, we never went through with it. The discussions themselves led to some very nice sex and that sort of satisfied the urge at the time.

Many years later, my interest started to grow after spending more and more time watching porn on the internet. Our sex life had become sort of stale and very infrequent, so I turned to porn for inspiration during masturbation sessions. After some time I started to pay more attention to the cock the hot girls were sucking, in addition to the hot girls.

I knew how much I liked to have my cock sucked and so started thinking what it would feel like to suck a cock. Even then, it was several years of this kind of fascination before I actually got up the nerve to actually attempt to hook up with another guy.

I started chatting with other guys and found that there were a lot of guys like myself, married and not getting much sex at home and horny, that wanted to give it a try. I set up a meeting one afternoon (actually two in the same day,) with one early in the afternoon and one later.

The first guy came over and we got right to it, dropping our pants and playing with each other's cocks, then taking turns sucking each other for a bit. After he came in my mouth, he left rather quickly. A little while later the second guy showed up and I just reached through the window of his car and jacked him off!

I have masturbated in public places many times. One of my favorites is sitting on my back deck, where I have done it many times. Sometimes there are cars going by on the street which is very close and other times with people walking past on the sidewalk which is even closer than the street.