Yes;
yes, under the right circumstances.
yes, under the right circumstances.
One of the best things I've done in my relationship with my wife was to open up about masturbating. I wish we hadn't waited so long to really talk about it.
I think most women assume guys masturbate, so it was actually easy to get the conversation started when i finally did. We met when we lived in different cites, so I told her all about how I used to masturbate while fantasizing about her when we were apart - which i did a lot! I also admitted that I liked to masturbate to erotic imagery and porn, but that the biggest turn now would be for her to watch me.
She was totally understanding and revealed she had masturbated when she was younger and when we were apart. Too bad there wasn't video chat back then. She has always rubded her clit while we have sex, which i told her was incredibly sexy too me, which was a relief to her as she thought it might be awkward or somehow deficient. So we understand that masturbating fills a special role for both of us that complements our connection to each other and increases our pleasure.
Mostly we incorporate this into sex - foreplay and afterwards. She cums first during intercourse, so depending how we're doing, i can either keep doing her pussy, or if i want to extend my pleasure out for a while longer, we'll hang out together while i take things into my own hands.
Other times, there are morning or evenings where I really want to rub one out. She's fine with that and i can alway get a little "encouragement" from her either clothed, topless or naked.
Either way, she'll let me cum on her breasts, but she also like it when i cum all over myself.
The openness has led to other openness too. We talk about sex more directly and learned that mild-mannered-us actually enjoy explicit, positive dirty talk durning sex and as little sweet nothings during the day.
As for the other situations in the forum question, I doubt she'd be into any of that, so Im not sure how it'd come about happening. But who knows?!
