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rlf1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 154
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The woman who was to become my second ex wife, brought a hot female friend with her on our first date, and when we decided to leave the club to go back to my place, invited her friend to tag along. When we got to my place they had sex while I watched, then invited me to join them in a threesome for the rest of the night.
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There are a lot of things that you can do without engaging in intercourse. There is oral sex, mutual masturbation, phone sex, and other things. I suggest that since you are already watchingn porn and masturbating, go on line and look for porn that features oral sex, or mutual masturbation etc.. and this way you can get an idea of what these things are and how they are performed. There are sex toys that you can share that are not penetration toys, like the butterfly, that you wear that stimulates your clit and he can contol with a remote control.
Realistically, there is a cornucopia of things that can be done that can cause an orgasm without penetration, so do a little research and let the good times roll!
Realistically, there is a cornucopia of things that can be done that can cause an orgasm without penetration, so do a little research and let the good times roll!
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I prefer something in between.Someone tight too often makes me sore, someone too loose and I can't cum.
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Quote by Jack_42
If my nearly senile brain serves me correct this is from the 70's and rumoured to be written about Warren Beatty.
I believe that Carly Simon actually admitted that she wrote the song about Clive Davis after a short relationship with him, but kept it a secrete because he was such a major player in the recording industry that she didn't want to piss him off.
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I was in teh military for 20 yeqrs and our physicaal training included running almost every day. We would run between 3 and 12 miles per run. I have found that there are some inherent problems with running every day. The wear and tear on your joints seems to be the biggest one. What a lot of people seem to forget is that in order to run often with the least amount of joint damage they need to have the proper running shoes. The variety of shoes out there cater to people from the walkers to the marathoners. The thing that you have to keep in mind is that you need to have the proper shoes for the distance you plan to run and the condition of the route that you plan to take. There is a big difference between cross country shoes and street shoes. You also need to know if your feet pronate or supinate and get the correct shoes for you. The one thing tha a lot of people tend to forget as well is that the padding and support in your shoes breaks down the more you run. I had an orthopedic surgeon tell me that if I was planning to run more than 9 miles a week I needed to change my shoes every 3 months. I don't know if shoes have improved since than allowing you to go farther with fewer changes, so I would do a little research on the type of shoe you need and the frequency of changing that you will be needing.
A lot of people suggested treadmills of eliptical machines as an alternativewhich is fine if you are lookiing to just burn calories, but in order to improve muscle tone and strength, you really need to run outside. Another suggestion is that you either talk out loud or sing aloud as you run. This will help you improve your O2 exchange and allow you to run farther over time without burning out your legs. Thats why you always hear military units singing cadence when they run.
A lot of people suggested treadmills of eliptical machines as an alternativewhich is fine if you are lookiing to just burn calories, but in order to improve muscle tone and strength, you really need to run outside. Another suggestion is that you either talk out loud or sing aloud as you run. This will help you improve your O2 exchange and allow you to run farther over time without burning out your legs. Thats why you always hear military units singing cadence when they run.
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The studies have been done, and men in general prefer women that are curvy, despite what the fashon world says. I am a big guy, and can be some what vigorous during sex and if a woman is too skinny it can become uncomfortable for the both of us. When I see a woman that is too skinny, my first reaction is usually that I would break her during sex. It doesn't keep me from appreciating any size woman for what they are though, I have always believed that women are Gods sculptures and they are to be appreciated as any work of art is.
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I think that you can fall in love with the image created from online correspondence, but you cannot truly fall in love with someone until you know them face to face. The reason being is that a person can say all the right things on line despite their personality, and when you finally meet they might be totally different in person. Thats when you see the real person behind the words and you then decide if you are in love with them.
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Sweetie, I can't speak for other men out there, but for me it was a couple of things, first and foremost it was about her achieving the maximum pleasure that she could in a sexual situation. If one is good, two should be twice as good. Next, it was all about being able to watch her reaction to the things that were being done in order for her to achieve orgasm. If I wasn't the focal point of the sex, I could see what turned her on and what didn't. Last but not least, variety is the spice of life. Someone else may do things to her that she and I haddn't thought of, and so I learn a new trick to add to my bag of tricks to increase her sexual pleasure.
I found that I could learn a lot when sharing her with women too.
I found that I could learn a lot when sharing her with women too.
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The one question that I haven't seen asked is, how often do you want sex? A lot of people came up with real suggestions that took into consideration his mental and physical states. Those avenues should be explored, on the other hand, if you are looking to have sex multiple times daily, the reality of it is that you may have just worn him out. You do need to communicate with each other in a way that does not put pressure on each other.
Another thing that you should think about is how you can fix your low self esteem issues. If you were to feel better about yourself, you may not need the constant validation that you are looking for from him through sex. The same thing goes for him. If he has some issues that he is experiencing, he too needs to work on fixing them so that he is more receptive to your needs be they self esteem or sexual. If the two of you are committed to making the relationship work, you both need to be honest about your desires, sexual as well as non sexual.
Just a thought.
Another thing that you should think about is how you can fix your low self esteem issues. If you were to feel better about yourself, you may not need the constant validation that you are looking for from him through sex. The same thing goes for him. If he has some issues that he is experiencing, he too needs to work on fixing them so that he is more receptive to your needs be they self esteem or sexual. If the two of you are committed to making the relationship work, you both need to be honest about your desires, sexual as well as non sexual.
Just a thought.
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Holy crap, some of you guys sound like you are in Alaska, below freezing temps and all. I feel for you. I am listening to the 70's on live 365 ( an on line radio station), I live in Yuma Arizona and its chilly here. It only gets into the 80's during the day. Brrrrrr... wheres my coat?
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Why is there no story catagory for FILF's? There is an abundance of MILF stories, and with no FILF stories, I am feeling a bit discriminated against. Are there no lustful yearnings for fathers out there, ( other than in the catagory of )? As a father, I would like to believe that we are as desireable as mothers to females and /or males other than our offspring.
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The reality of it is that men are fixers, women are venters, therefore until we begin to understand and respond according to each others train of thought, women will always be "difficult". On the other hand, men are no trip down easy street either.
Take a lesson from Ralphie May."As a man in a relationship, you can either be right... or you can be happy. When you are in a relationship with a woman, you can't be both."
Take a lesson from Ralphie May."As a man in a relationship, you can either be right... or you can be happy. When you are in a relationship with a woman, you can't be both."
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My belief is that if a woman squirts when she has an orgasm, it means that she is truly into the sex and is really letting herself go with no thought of appearance or responsibility for the partners sexual happiness. Ejaculaating orgasms should be the fireworks in the head, losing your mind orgasm that a woman dreams of experiencing, and her partner should be ecstatic if they are able to elicit this response in her. I believe that a woman who hasn't ejaculated during orgasm, has not achieved the ultimate orgasm yet.
I am willing to accept the wetness so long as I am sure that she is getting off.
I am willing to accept the wetness so long as I am sure that she is getting off.
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Heres the thing with me. I have what could be considered a very colorful sexual past, and if she doesn't mind my past, I don't mind hers. I have been involved in gangbangs, threesomes, group sex, random sex with strangers etc. I enjoy certian fetishes, and am willing to be introduced to new ones.
There are things that I will not participate in, and if my intended partner is into the fetish or sexual situation that I won't participate in, I can't see it stopping me from considering her to be the one, so long as we agree that I would not be participating in the act. If she absolutely has to indulge in the practice, I will let her go off on her own and play, so long as she comes home to me.
In return, I would expect the same from her.
There are things that I will not participate in, and if my intended partner is into the fetish or sexual situation that I won't participate in, I can't see it stopping me from considering her to be the one, so long as we agree that I would not be participating in the act. If she absolutely has to indulge in the practice, I will let her go off on her own and play, so long as she comes home to me.
In return, I would expect the same from her.
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I started eating pussy with the female I lost my virginity to, and have not stopped. In my mind, eating pussy is a cornerstone of a womans sexual pleasure. When having sex with a woman, my first priority is for her to have several orgasms prior to me having even one. Oral sex is the key to that, so therefore I consider myself to be a true pussy eater. 3 orgasms for her is only the start.
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Yes I did
Yes, in fact I haave encouraged it
Yes I have on multiple occasions.
I tell any woman that I am with that I am not mutually exclusive and that I will on occasion enjoy the company of another female. I go on to say that I can't forbid her from doing what I do. I encourage the swinging lifestyle, but if she chooses not to embrace the lifestyle, I encourage the occasional tryst if she chooses to do so. If after I plead my case, she decides that she can not abide by my lifestyle, she is free to exit the relationship, in fact I encourage it so that feelings do not get hurt in the future.
Yes, in fact I haave encouraged it
Yes I have on multiple occasions.
I tell any woman that I am with that I am not mutually exclusive and that I will on occasion enjoy the company of another female. I go on to say that I can't forbid her from doing what I do. I encourage the swinging lifestyle, but if she chooses not to embrace the lifestyle, I encourage the occasional tryst if she chooses to do so. If after I plead my case, she decides that she can not abide by my lifestyle, she is free to exit the relationship, in fact I encourage it so that feelings do not get hurt in the future.
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Now days, age is just a number. With the state of peoples health both mentally as well as physically, deteriorating so much slower than previous generations, I don't think that there really is an age difference that can be considered too much.
I have seen 30 year olds that look like they are on deaths door, and I have seen people in their 60's and 70's that are as sharp and active as people half their age. I don't count anyone out for their age, it's about compatability.
I have seen 30 year olds that look like they are on deaths door, and I have seen people in their 60's and 70's that are as sharp and active as people half their age. I don't count anyone out for their age, it's about compatability.
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I was married, in the military and stationed in Okinawa Japan. I got my orders to come back to the states, and the contracted movers came to pack up our house. The wife and I were busy with all the other things we needed to be done in order to get moved, so we were basically ignoraing the packers, letting them do their job. When we got our house in the states, and our household goods were delivered, we found a box marked "bedroom appliances" which when we opened contained our extensive collection of toys, lubes and other items. We had to laugh, because it never occured to us to pack up our toys before the movers got there.