Quote by martb40
I think that maybe it's such a big deal for you, psychologically, that your brain has already accepted failure before anything even begins. You have orgasmed while drunk because you were relaxed and not so focused on reaching climax. The brain is the largest sex organ in your body and can delay or rush orgasm depending on how it's stimulated. Be assured that if you can orgasm while drunk you can orgasm sober. In fact, it's often far more difficult to orgasm after consuming alcohol. Try to focus on your favourite fantasy while your partner stimulates your clitoris. Try to relax, close your eyes and let your mind wander. The more relaxed you are and the less you focus on the negatives, the easier it will be for you to be sexually satisfied with your partner. I know this from having difficulty with reaching orgasm myself, through fellatio, with former partners. Only my wife has ever been able to get me there and it was a battle because I was convinced that I couldn't orgasm that way. Once she broke that misconception in me I had no problem and it's one of my favourite things now. I hope that this helps you to achieve your goal and have a far mor rewarding sex life with your partner.