Thanks guys....... and btw I am NOT a fan of 50 Shades so the fantasy def never came from the book
Thanks for the insight everyone. And what I was looking for was more the lifestyle than just the bedroom. I assumed communication would be a given; however, he is not the easiest person to talk to. Even still it is hard to know when to communicate with him and how to approach a subject of this magnitude.
.....be my master. I'm very interested in the BDSM lifestyle but I do not know how to approach my husband with this or how to convince him to give it a try. Suggestions?