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lustone
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 30
United Kingdom
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So, as most of you know I'm the deep emotional type of guy that is really looking to find love although I'm pretty damn young. Plus, you know, I'm a virgin. And the thought of having someone there to share good times and bad times with, knowing that we got each other no matter is all I want in real life.
Unfortunately, the girls I've been with only wanted to 'date' and not get serious. Which was a bummer for me, cause apparently I'll only have sex with someone I'm in love with and who's equally in love with me. (I know, it's weird.)
So, ladies. Views on this?
All opinions are accepted
Feel free to call me a loser, or wish that I was where ever you're living.
Unfortunately, the girls I've been with only wanted to 'date' and not get serious. Which was a bummer for me, cause apparently I'll only have sex with someone I'm in love with and who's equally in love with me. (I know, it's weird.)
So, ladies. Views on this?
All opinions are accepted
Feel free to call me a loser, or wish that I was where ever you're living.
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So, remember that question that completely stumps most people? "What is love?"
Contrary to popular belief, it's not "Baby don't hurt me. Don't hurt me! No more!"
I've been thinking (which is no easy task for me), and came to this solution.
Love is giving someone the power to completely destroy you, but trusting them not to.
If anyone got some answers to share, give it a shot! I'd really like to hear what's your meaning of love.
Contrary to popular belief, it's not "Baby don't hurt me. Don't hurt me! No more!"
I've been thinking (which is no easy task for me), and came to this solution.
Love is giving someone the power to completely destroy you, but trusting them not to.
If anyone got some answers to share, give it a shot! I'd really like to hear what's your meaning of love.
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Quote by angelic2thief
Having a list isnt such a good idea it means your going into things with a narrow mind. Just talk to people, any people, all people..............your talking to all these people on here arnt you?? its no different out there
I know, that's why I said my problem is that I'm looking for someone who doesnt exist.
But I dont think having standards is bad, it's just bad when it's either too high or too low.
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Quote by blazestcyr
honey most people love to talk about themselves
a person who is generally interested in THEM is sexy
but you have to make the effort..if you dont talk to any one..they wont talk to you
so brush up on current events, music, movies, sports and go get them!
you can do this!
Sure, I know I can do this because I've done it before. It's just different this time, like you said, I showed interest in them, and still nothing.
I think I know my problem, though. I'm looking for someone who probably doesn't even exist.
Here's a list, just so you people can tell me what you think. It's kind of a standard for me, which has gotten a bit higher over the years. I can't imagine how, though.
Smart
Funny
Beautiful
Fun
Shy
Sexy
Inquisitive
Passionate
Determined
.............
That's just what I got off the top of my head in the list of things I look for in a potential partner.
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As most of you said in the previous posts- "Just be yourself, kind and respectful, introduce yourself and start from there"..... I've tried that, it didnt work. Sometimes, they look at me like I'm insane 
Me being the socially impaired person I am just end up raising my cup to my mouth, drink something and walk away
Me being the socially impaired person I am just end up raising my cup to my mouth, drink something and walk away
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So, I've been to a party recently and I had loads of trouble talking to the girls that I didnt know. I know I have major confidence issues, can anyone give me some tips on how to overcome my situation?
Note, I have trouble starting conversations, not so much as continuing one. For example, if a girl starts to talk to me, I'm completely normal, but if I start to talk to a girl.......... I have pet pasta and right now it's not talking to meatball for some odd reason.
Note, I have trouble starting conversations, not so much as continuing one. For example, if a girl starts to talk to me, I'm completely normal, but if I start to talk to a girl.......... I have pet pasta and right now it's not talking to meatball for some odd reason.
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As a guy, all I want right now is to love someone and have them love me back. Is it normal for this emotional neediness to occur? Does this make me any less of a man? Would women really take me seriously? Would my kind, caring and loving nature once again be taken advantage of? 
I'm sick of abusive relationships..
I'm sick of abusive relationships..
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So, I've been to a party recently and I had loads of trouble talking to the girls that I didnt know. I know I have major confidence issues, can anyone give me some tips on how to overcome my situation?
Note, I have trouble starting conversations, not so much as continuing one. For example, if a girl starts to talk to me, I'm completely normal, but if I start to talk to a girl.......... I have pet pasta and right now it's not talking to meatball for some odd reason.
Note, I have trouble starting conversations, not so much as continuing one. For example, if a girl starts to talk to me, I'm completely normal, but if I start to talk to a girl.......... I have pet pasta and right now it's not talking to meatball for some odd reason.
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So, I've been to a party recently and I had loads of trouble talking to the girls that I didnt know. I know I have major confidence issues, can anyone give me some tips on how to overcome my situation?
Note, I have trouble starting conversations, not so much as continuing one. For example, if a girl starts to talk to me, I'm completely normal, but if I start to talk to a girl.......... I have pet pasta and right now it's not talking to meatball for some odd reason.
Note, I have trouble starting conversations, not so much as continuing one. For example, if a girl starts to talk to me, I'm completely normal, but if I start to talk to a girl.......... I have pet pasta and right now it's not talking to meatball for some odd reason.
Well, I was kinda worried bout it. I decided not to ask her after all, I'm sure that this is just a phase and it'll blow over. But thanks for the clarification on this topic, I greatly appreciate it
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So, my second cousin and I are very, very close to each other, but havent seen each other in about 2 years due to me living in another country.
Anyways, we're close and we talk to each other almost every day, share some personal info and the usual stuff.
We often say that we miss each other, send each other hearts and beg each other to come visit.
Now, I have no idea about this, but does it sound as though she likes me more than just a family figure?
I wont lie, I think I like her that way too, I'm just not sure whether she'd go for it.
Anyways, we're close and we talk to each other almost every day, share some personal info and the usual stuff.
We often say that we miss each other, send each other hearts and beg each other to come visit.
Now, I have no idea about this, but does it sound as though she likes me more than just a family figure?
I wont lie, I think I like her that way too, I'm just not sure whether she'd go for it.