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lilmsmandy
Over 90 days ago
Gay Male, 29
0 miles · United States

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I've seen it all, and experienced a lot too.

What's your favorite thing for your partner to do with the mess after you're finished?
I've gone both ways in the past. More recently I've been bottoming exclusively, but I used to enjoy the top with the right guy. I'm not very big, so a lot of guys who were curious and inexperienced seemed to enjoy it. If it came down to a choice between the two I would almost always pick bottom.
I think I knew when I was very young, *edited by admin for content* I didn't act on it until I hit sexual maturity *edited again*, and I wasn't positive it was a part of who I am until after college.

It's still a question I toss around in my head every once in a while, like after a bad relationship, but I think I'm pretty much decided at this point.
Of course I would!

I don't think that it would ever happen, but I think we've all had that thought.

I know I'd be mortified to ask that of any of my friends if I was in that situation...pretty sure I'd just suck it up and hump a pillow...
That's a tough one.

I started doing it because it made me horny, and sometimes it still does.

But nowadays it's just to make him happy most of the time.

I do still like it, and it's very sexual, but it's more about my partner than me at this point.