My first girlfriend was a conservative Christian and wouldn't give it up. She would, however, let me watch her rub one one out while I jerked it. Ever since then it's a must in my relationships. Her legs spread open, finger a blur, staring lustily in your eye... so hot!
My wife doesn't know I'm on Lush. We have an infant so she's in bed early with the baby every night. She knows I stay up late to "work things out on my own" but I can't say she approves of my activities.