Well for me , I found lush by accident many years ago, I ventured into the chatrooms and watched for a while and read the conversations as I was very nervous to get involved....but alas I did start to chat with some very interesting and open people who made me feel at ease and very welcome...being a single guy lush provided a good sexual escape, as I'm not really a big porn watcher. As time went on I got chatting more with people and found that I really loved it!....I do love the sex chat, not always just plain sex chat but more a voyage of discovery...it's now become a good release for me and for some of the women I chat with too?...and that I find to be a real turn on for me....lush....a sexy hot friendly place to spend some time...
I don't think it hurts at all...it certainly makes it far more intense when I cum and I can last a lot longer
i am now with a tenga toy
10 minutes ago...with gel but I love a woman's hand doing it