dutiful husband, dad, chef, taxi driver, cleaner, gardener, personal slave when I’m lucky, a handful of bi sexual encounters, a life long appreciation, bordering on obsession of feminine feet, shoes and nylon, Elmer Batters reincarnated with my love for photography, alternative arts, music, psilicobyn during the season. Good grasp of the English language and hoping to put it to some use on here, please bear with me though; time is a very precious commodity and so much of it is already consumed in the art of just getting by, doing what needs to be done to survive and provide. Not religious but do have Buddhist tendencies, Tantric leanings and a splash of good old Catholic guilt. By no stretch of the imagination am I, or have I ever been, a swinger or lifestyle to coin the usual suspects, albeit, in the main due to reluctance by my partner to explore, which, has to be said has caused a fair few frustrations; I’m pretty sure I’m not alone in that department, must be many others of any gender whose partners just don’t have the same inclinations; lucky lucky those of you who do.
Live somewhere in leafy Cheshire, work in the city or would do we’re it not for the pandemic, like a pint, love to chat, love making a real connection with another person. I’ve found there’s a few stories in everyone, it’s frustrating that we live in a society which renders talking openly about the urges which keep us all ticking, which occupy such large part of the mind, as unspeakable, as something to be ashamed of, as something to hide, a society which prefers to pigeon hole and divide us, cross dresser, tranny, domme, sub, gay, bi, as if any one aspect defines us, you get the picture I’m sure; is there a word for someone who is all of those things and more.
My ‘Fave’ sections probably reveal more about me than the above but in essence I thought it was about time to update my profile, I think the main reason I haven’t bothered is due to the prospect of being disappointed that no one will read it, that it won’t spark any interest etc, however I’m also conscious I probably need to write stories to spur any connection, something I intend to do, might even do a short one today.
I realise there will be a lot of fakes and flakes on here albeit I think the nature of the site is probably conducive to there being far fewer than on other adult online platforms. I’m not looking for people to meet or play with in anything other than in a literary sense

Interests
too many too mention, fluid, changing, evolving, all the usual and hopefully some new ones on the horizon

Favorite Books
Despite occasionally engrossing myself in stories on here I’m actually not an avid book reader, always been of the opinion I could be doing something better, something real with my time rather than reading about it, one book that did make an impression on me though was Wasp Factory and if anyone ever asks for a fave that’s my reply. I am keen on photography and don’t know if it counts but I do have a collection of Elmer Batters and Robert Mapplethorpe books, both well ahead of their own time, obviously very few words in these books but they do say a picture is worth a thousand

Favorite Authors
Would have to be Patti Smith, I have read all of her books, I absolutely love Patti

Favorite Movies
Anything by Jim Jarmusch, absolutely nobody comes close him, Tarantino potentially knocking at the door but that’s about it

Favorite TV Shows
Breaking Bad obviously

Favorite Music
Patti Smith obviously