Wow, I really appreciate all your answers. And your honesty. I was married for 12 years to a man, that I didn't want to touch. I'm sorry to admit that, but I did leave....
I have a very healthy sex drive. I do want it at least once a day. What I can't figure out, is why our sex life would just go away..
I love the new toy analogy....It is true. Both men and women treat a new relationship like a new toy, and after awhile, it does change. But for once in my life, I truly believe I found my soul mate, we are compatable in every sense. I thought sexually too, but that changed. We are in the middle of moving, but once this whole month??? I mean really??? We have been busy, and tired, but it has not diminished my need for him....He holds me every night. Kisses me when I get home, askes me about my day.. In every aspect, we truly have the perfect relationship....and no, sex should not be everything, but I need something. He holds me every night when we sleep. Tells me I'm stunning. He is very romantic and sweet, I just want to know what happend to the sex?? I have tried, everything, from sitting at the table naked, to arousing him other ways.....
Im honestly just like wtf?? I ask him if he's bored? doesn't want me anymore, he says he wants me, and loves me...he doesn't know whats wrong? Is that truthful?? Do men get depressed? and does that affect you alls sex drive??
You guys are awesome, thanks for talking with me...I know this is way personal,,but I wanted opinions.
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jimyzgrl
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I want to know why, relationships start in the beginning, you can't get enough of each other. Have sex every day, multiple times a day. Then you go along, eventually move in together, and that stops?
Okay, so me and the bf used to have sex multiple times a day/week. why would that stop? Now, honestly am lucky if I get it a couple times a month. Am I doing something wrong? Do men just lose interest after time? I want it every day. Sometimes in the morning, and at night would be just fine by me. I was married for 12 years, to a man, that I didn't want to touch towards the end, and I can't help feeling that the bf is thinking that about me. He says he's not, is completely in love, wants to get married. yadda yadda,,,,but I have needs. You just don't hear to much about men complaining their girlfriend/wife wants it to much.
So my question for the men is, do you guys just get that comfortable, and not feel that you have to woo us anymore?
I want to have sex with him all the time. He does work alot and we have been busy, but DAMN!
Kinda wrote a book about my life....LOL...hope nobody minds
But I'm curious as to what other men think about my question....
Thanks!
Okay, so me and the bf used to have sex multiple times a day/week. why would that stop? Now, honestly am lucky if I get it a couple times a month. Am I doing something wrong? Do men just lose interest after time? I want it every day. Sometimes in the morning, and at night would be just fine by me. I was married for 12 years, to a man, that I didn't want to touch towards the end, and I can't help feeling that the bf is thinking that about me. He says he's not, is completely in love, wants to get married. yadda yadda,,,,but I have needs. You just don't hear to much about men complaining their girlfriend/wife wants it to much.
So my question for the men is, do you guys just get that comfortable, and not feel that you have to woo us anymore?
I want to have sex with him all the time. He does work alot and we have been busy, but DAMN!
Kinda wrote a book about my life....LOL...hope nobody minds
But I'm curious as to what other men think about my question....
Thanks!
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Red, speaking for myself, I am with a bad boy, who is actually on parol from prison right now. Why? You will ask next, but the fact is, that he was nice to me. But he is a bad ass. I think most of what first attracted me to him (besides his looks and not to sound shallow), but was his confidence. He carried himself strong. But yet he does treat me like a princess, so I can say, he is a nice guy too right?? I don't think its the whole acting like a dick to women that attracts them. I think its confidence. You can take an average guy, but if he's got confidence in himself, I'm sure women everywhere are crawling all over him....
I don't know,,,those are just my thoughts...
I'm new to this forum thing, hope didn't offend anyone. I really like it on this site!
I don't know,,,those are just my thoughts...
I'm new to this forum thing, hope didn't offend anyone. I really like it on this site!
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this woman I worked with, very nice lady, but missing about 2 teeth in front, and heavier, said that her and her husband (toothless also by the way), woke up in the morning stuck together. They had been having fun with syrup the night before.........to this day, still can't get that visual out of my head....
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