I find it to be a great ice breaker to have a porno on the tube when you meet a swing couple for the first time. kinda melts the ice so to speak. 
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I have never considered it cheating. Neither has my wife. We have no secrets. We talk about our cyber sex partners with one another and sometimes even compare notes as to what each one likes in case we trade partners. We never actually meet someone unless the other spouse knows who what when and where. We prefer to swing together , same room etc. if we do an actual meet. but we have gone off alone. It has done nothing but spice up our sex life and make our marriage stronger. We both know where HOME is.
In answer to your question, I have done a lot more than 50. My wife and I have had a computer since 1998. We have both cybered a lot. It pumped up our sex life. My wife finally got to meet someone and experience her bi sexuality. We got deeply involved in swinging and have met a lot of very nice couples and ladies on here. I don't cyber much anymore . I had a heart attack a few years ago that has slowed me down. Occasionally I meet a lady in a chat that turns me on an we cyber. Cybering is a mind fuck. You have to have a vivid imagination and a partner who has good verbal skills helps. It can be a lot of fun , it just depends on the partner and their ability to please the other person. In fact its more like real sex than someone who has never done it can imagine. I always like to do the lady first , after she orgasms it's her turn to get me off....jim
