If an older man asks to take my picture (and most of them are older) I realize that they have a desire to see my body. I am not opposed to that really but I want people to see me as more than a body. When I put out my tongue I present myself in a less than alluring manner. I am trying to make the man decide if he still desires me even though he will view me as less desirable. I want him to get beyond his hormonal rage and try to understand if it is me or just his chemistry initiating this contact.