My boyfriend and I were at a wedding yesterday and towards mid evening he was approached by a women he vaguely knows who told him she wanted to have a threesome with us. She was very drunk when she spoke to him, but he talked to her at the end of the night when she had sobered up a bit and she said she was still up for it. After he told me I was insanely nervous, couldn’t look at her or talk to her when our paths crossed. She also didn’t look at me at all, and was actually quite rude to me when we’d been introduced first thing at the party before the proposition (which I commented on at the time).
Maybe she was just flirting with my BF and really I’m of no interest?
He was trembling with excitement when he told me! Even if I wanted to we couldn’t have last night due to our sleeping arrangements, however I was pretty turned on by the idea and I am for it. I’ve never had a threesome, he has had one and is far more sexually experienced than me.
How do I approach this situation now? I’m aware of the unicorn phenomenon and this one walked right up to us! If I bail because I thought she was rude then if we want a threesome we have to find a third which is pretty hard irl!
Thoughts and advice appreciated!