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running, gives me lots of endorphins, really any exercise low to medium intensity helps
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hornyyethappyman
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 154
United States
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7-8, I usually just wake up. The last 2 months its been closer to 8, I run in the morning and lift weights most nights
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wow, this subject really hits home. I have a female friend who has rejected me twice, then I rejected her! She is just all wrong for me, and I figure eventually I will realize I dodged a bullet. But she was so much fun, I feel a big sense of loss. We are still friends, we are rebuilding ourselves to stay close; very, very hard to do, but we both feel we must stay in touch and we are doing so, but getting over love is so very hard!
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I read my reply from 6/1, yes, I've loved 2, sad to say I've had to choose, and stayed with my wife, and pretty much have lost the other woman, she reminded me so much of my wife when we first met, but my wife is trying to be more like when we first fell for each other.
All I can say its been a rollercoaster, great big highs, very low lows; not sure I could ever handle this again, a very happy (and sometimes sad) summer.
All I can say its been a rollercoaster, great big highs, very low lows; not sure I could ever handle this again, a very happy (and sometimes sad) summer.
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Yes! I believe there is more than one person out there for us. I keep the other love quiet, although I'm sure she knows
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Yes! I believe there is more than one person out there for us. I keep the other love quiet, although I'm sure she knows
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You all can relax, the texting relationship is dead. I no longer see her at work, we still are friends, but she stopped messaging as soon as I changed areas where I work (as I suspected would happen). As I tried to tell you all, there was no emotion with me at all, maybe there was for her, but I'm not asking, that's for sure. Thanks for the input, but I think the ones who condemned it were very wrong, it was fun, that's all. I am trying some new things to try to fire up my wife, exercise! We'll see if endorphins help!
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I couldn't do it, I've had a few offers over the years, I told one woman (who I thought sexually was a perfect match) that it would be so much fun, but it wasn't a good idea. If the spouses found out there would be so much pain, its not worth it.
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I agree sweet'n'naughty, but she's a real friend. I think its complex, but I do enjoy hearing from her. Janet is right, I enjoy it. Not sure what to say.
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Janet you're right, I do like it. I have started texting my wife (before I read this, I seem to be slightly ahead of you), and I will follow your advice. To the other replies, nothing is going to happen, she's not in my head, but I do enjoy the attention, and I know it really boosts her ego. Confusing, that is why I posted this question. Thank you everybody for the replies.
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Janet, those are good questions. No, my wife doesn't know, she does know her. If a guy was doing this with my wife I would shake his hand and ask him his secret, if it fired her up and she initiated sex with me, that's fine with me. I'm pretty secure. And I tried phone sex with my wife tonight, and I failed (this is before I read these replies).
As one person said, its not black and white.
As one person said, its not black and white.
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OK, to answer the questions, I just drive her nuts until she agrees to have sex with me, its not forced or anything.
Yes, I know her, she's worked very hard to look great (she works out a lot), it is an ego boost to her that she has an effect on me. No, there is no sexual chatting, but there is some fire between us when we see each other. That said, nothing is going to happen, this has happened to me before and I've never acted on it (from other women over the years), which is sad because usually when that happens I lose somebody who was a great female friend, I don't like that at all. As far as focusing on my wife, I try, and I try, and I try, I have tried everything. I am a fun loving guy, who almost died 5 years ago, I'm easygoing like Sunday morning. I'm romantic, lusty, hardworking, in great shape, I come home every night. My wife has a hormone problem, and is very conservative. But I love her and care about her, so don't tell me to find a new mate. Did you ever see the episode of Everybody Loves Raymond, where Debra is doing aerobics, the instructor is a hot guy, Ray gets more sex, thinks that this guy is getting her worked up, and confronts her, she says:" so you think I'm cheating on you... with you?"
That's what this is! Does this help?
Yes, I know her, she's worked very hard to look great (she works out a lot), it is an ego boost to her that she has an effect on me. No, there is no sexual chatting, but there is some fire between us when we see each other. That said, nothing is going to happen, this has happened to me before and I've never acted on it (from other women over the years), which is sad because usually when that happens I lose somebody who was a great female friend, I don't like that at all. As far as focusing on my wife, I try, and I try, and I try, I have tried everything. I am a fun loving guy, who almost died 5 years ago, I'm easygoing like Sunday morning. I'm romantic, lusty, hardworking, in great shape, I come home every night. My wife has a hormone problem, and is very conservative. But I love her and care about her, so don't tell me to find a new mate. Did you ever see the episode of Everybody Loves Raymond, where Debra is doing aerobics, the instructor is a hot guy, Ray gets more sex, thinks that this guy is getting her worked up, and confronts her, she says:" so you think I'm cheating on you... with you?"
That's what this is! Does this help?
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Ok, here's my question: I have a female friend who will text or facebook message with me. Its non-sexual, just friendly, but she's younger and in great shape. I've noticed when I interact with her I am so fired up that I insist on sex with my wife. I do not pretend its this other woman, I'm having sex with my wife. This other woman knows she is having this effect on me and enjoys it. She is also married, I do not believe she has any interest in ending her marriage, as do I. What does anyone think? I deal with a lot of people each day, I have had offers of affairs, always turned them down, but I really enjoy the effect she has on me, but would not cheat, and the texts are innocent. Years ago before I was married I had a girlfriend who would go see Chippendales (male dancers), as soon as the show was over she would call me, I loved it! She was preheated! That's how I view this on me.
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yes! it can be so frustrating, I remember one female friend who wanted to have an affair with me (we were both married), I told her "no, it would be so much fun, but no", she would have been the greatest sexual partner, but it would've have all fallen apart.
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sex can be a release, sometimes your hormones are boiling, you need release.
love is much deeper, its what's inside, its knowing someone is there, good times and bad.
I'd like to think they can be separated, but I like to think the person I would have sex with is at least a good friend, but it seems like my female friends want to possess me, just like my wife, so at least with my relationships it doesn't seem possible.
love is much deeper, its what's inside, its knowing someone is there, good times and bad.
I'd like to think they can be separated, but I like to think the person I would have sex with is at least a good friend, but it seems like my female friends want to possess me, just like my wife, so at least with my relationships it doesn't seem possible.
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when she swallows its amazing, especially when she sucks down every last drop. It feels like the blood in my legs is gone! a woman who does that has my loyalty, I would do whatever she wants (well, within reason!)
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I wouldn't pay attention to the scale, its how you look. If you look better that's what matters. The scale will drop.
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Oh please! Sex can be more strenuous than jogging, but i dont see any men worried about heart attacks when it comes to that!
Your body is made of muscle, and it can do anything you train it to do! Going for a quick jog every day would be hard at first because your body isnt used to it, but you will get used to it and then you'll love it! If anything it will strengthen your heart!
How true! Jogging (like sex) gives you endorphins, which makes you feel good about everything! I run most of the year 5-6 days a week, and I love it, I miss it when I don't do it.