My ex cheated on me with some random floozy at a club. She wrecked the dashboard of his car with her 4-inch hooker heels (no offence to anyone out there who's NOT a hooker but uses 4-inch heels) because she had her legs raised for obvious reasons. When I found out, I yelled at him, cussed at him and told him to rot in hell. That was 5 or so years ago and I still don't trust him. Don't get me wrong; we're on good terms now but if I was forced to put myself in his hands again, I'd rather shoot myself.
Well, I dont know about the other ladies in my society since it's rather conservative over here, but I love both giving and receiving oral. Unfortunately my SO is pretty wet behind the ears when it comes to sex. He's a fast learner but, unfortunately, since we're in a LDR, he hasn't had the opportunity to perfect his technique. But as some people have already pointed out, some like it, some just don't. You can't force it. But in my relationship, we give and take when it comes to sex. He has some kinks I'm not really that into and I have things he's not into, but every now and again, we indulge each other to make our experience in bed fair and square.