Would be happy if you could share what would be the "level" as you said? The element of "force" or "violence" in sexual act between a man and a woman could be that sensation (and feeling) of "oh he is inside me...filling me"...From such feeling of pleasure and satisfaction of being connected and intimate, does that also suggest for instance that women (secretly) wishes to be , an assumption that would revolt against one's sense of propriety? What would be man's corresponding feelings?