What I've realized about men is that they love to be embraced and accepted. So when my man cums (he is on top) I wrap my arms and legs around him, pull him in, and tell him I'm his. He thrusts as deep as he can, moans in pleasure, and fills me up. After that I put a plug in so I can hold all of his warmth in my tummy until next morning, put on pj pants and one of his shirts, and fall asleep instantly with him spooning me protectively. Everything in that moment says: I've chosen him. We do this every night and don't get me wrong I love it but it keeps him sooo happy, healthy, and energetic! It breathes life into him when I embrace him every night with my body so why would I ever think of taking that away from him?
Ofc I love cum in me! It helps me sleep (I basically need it at this point), it's one of the most romantic and intimate things you can do with your partner. In my case our nightly ritual nourishes the masculinity of my man which is one of the things that makes our relationship flourish!