Both, I like a couple kinds of fetish foreplay.
foreplay should last at least an hour ,giving and receiving ,maybe longer depending on what each person likes.
A woman dominating a man can be many different things, I for instance don't care for anything in my butt, for me its essentially foreplay and I do a like a woman to take charge.
twice a day sometimes 3 times...depending.
spanked ,but my g/f won't do it.
wow ! kind of sounds like my g/f. I can't get her to explore anything. When we first met she did here and there, now, nothing. I guess she got it out of her system.
Do women secretly like to dominate men .but are afraid to ask/try spanking etc.