I’m new here but have a couple of stories I’m looking forward to submitting. The whole idea of BDSM seems very erotic to me. I’m a bit of a control freak most of the time so the idea of totally submitting to another person is a terrifying turn on. I don’t think I’m ready for the “lifestyle” but I am fascinated by the idea of dipping my foot in the water. Maybe with a life preserver.