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I'm with WMM and DD, the rest of you are weird! I can't function enough to think much beyond, 'I am so hungover.'
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freakycactus
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 37
0 miles · Durham
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I'm utterly exhausted, or ill, or really upset about something, or so stressed out I can't relax enough to enjoy it or even to fully participate. Those are the only reasons I've ever turned him down.
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Height and hair, after that I'll notice his eyes, smile and hands (hands are important!) but at first glance, it's all about the height and hair. If he's tall, I'll take a second look, haha.
In all seriousness, it's not a conscious decision, it's just what I notice.
In all seriousness, it's not a conscious decision, it's just what I notice.
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Talk to her, ask her what's going on.
Is there anything going on that might be putting her off? Does she have a lot on her plate at the moment? I know if I'm stressed out about something I can struggle to relax enough to have sex. Are you helping her out enough around the house? Is there anything you can do to help her out?
Any one of a number of things could be going on here, talk to her, communication is key.
Is there anything going on that might be putting her off? Does she have a lot on her plate at the moment? I know if I'm stressed out about something I can struggle to relax enough to have sex. Are you helping her out enough around the house? Is there anything you can do to help her out?
Any one of a number of things could be going on here, talk to her, communication is key.
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Thanks for the replies. I will say though that if you force spit to leave your mouth and direct it, you are not simply "drooling", you are spitting. I fully understand a "power spit" that a lot here instantly associate with the term "spitting", but to me, there is a clear difference between drooling, and gathering up your saliva in your mouth and parsing your lips and pushing it out in a slow but controlled aim... also called... spitting. ;) Drool simply flows, spitting involves a direct involvement of pushing it out of your mouth.
I don't direct it, I don't even push it out, I just part my lips and little and it flows out 'cos of gravity and whatnot. So, you see, we agree.
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Most of the time he's laid on the bed and I'm in between his legs, I do love that position but I prefer to be on my knees. I love to look up at him when I'm on my knees and its more comfortable
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LOL Indeed "hocking a loogie" is NOT cool. But I don't think that is what we were talking about here. ;) If a woman lets her saliva gently flow from her parsed lips, and it falls on the cock to make a blowjob or handjob better.... she just spit. ;)
I disagree, the first image that springs to mind when I read the question was someone spitting onto my pussy. Not dribbling, not drooling but spitting, aiming and firing a load of spit onto me. As others have said, I've seen it in porn, I've had someone do it to me before - it felt disgusting. I've never spat on a man's cock but I have drooled, because if he's close to cumming then I'm not pausing my rhythm to swallow the saliva in my mouth, and I can't hold it in there forever.
There's a huge difference between the two acts.
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Now, that said, I completely differentiate drooling. Drool - good. Spit - saliva forcefully leaving the mouth propelled by air and enhanced by sound - BAD.
I couldn't agree with you more, I'm more than happy for drool to be involved
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From the list you gave, the most attractive to me is domestic. There's something about knowing he's a good dad to his kids, coming home and finding that he's put a wash load on so I don't have to, knowing that he's happy to help and doesn't expect me to do everything around the house. I love it and it makes me want him even more than I already do.
After that, I love that we have so much in common but also like different things. We can introduce each other to new things and sometimes we can relax and do something we know we'll both enjoy.
After that, I love that we have so much in common but also like different things. We can introduce each other to new things and sometimes we can relax and do something we know we'll both enjoy.
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And in answer to the op, no I'm not going to fuck someone I'm not attracted to because I've heard he has a big cock. If I'm not attracted to someone then it wouldn't be fun for me and what's the point if it won't be fun?
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Is it true that as guys gain weight their cocks shrink? Or does it only appear that way since they can't see it anymore?
It's called buried penis syndrome and it can happen when a man gains so much weight that the fat buries the penis. Weight isn't the only cause but it seems to be happening more and more as the number of obese people goes up.
I've seen it happen, a guy I was with gained about 6st while we were together and he lost at least an inch. Well, it was still there but it had been buried by the fat.
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It depends on how I'm feeling, if its a good day then I might join in the conversation or leave them to it. She can flirt as much as she likes, I trust him completely.
If it catches me unaware then I'd subtly make it clear that he is mine and I'm not happy about what's happening. You know the sort of thing I mean, put my arm around him, be sure to say things like, 'we think', 'we feel', 'we did the same thing', and I'd find a way to end the conversation quickly so we could both leave.
If its a bad day then I'd be giving him lots of meaningful looks to tell him I'm not happy, and I'd end it all very, very quickly. I'd never do anything too extreme because even when I feel jealous I know that I trust him completely, the jealousy is my issue and not his.
If it catches me unaware then I'd subtly make it clear that he is mine and I'm not happy about what's happening. You know the sort of thing I mean, put my arm around him, be sure to say things like, 'we think', 'we feel', 'we did the same thing', and I'd find a way to end the conversation quickly so we could both leave.
If its a bad day then I'd be giving him lots of meaningful looks to tell him I'm not happy, and I'd end it all very, very quickly. I'd never do anything too extreme because even when I feel jealous I know that I trust him completely, the jealousy is my issue and not his.
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Nipples, clit, neck, earlobes, bum, inner thigh. I love being bitten, sometimes lightly, sometimes hard.
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Personally, it's a huge turn off. I find spitting anywhere other than in the sink while you brush your teeth, disgusting.
Having said that, the thought of someone spitting in my mouth to show their dominance over me is quite hot.
Having said that, the thought of someone spitting in my mouth to show their dominance over me is quite hot.
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There is a definite advantage if you're an author and have av of a sexy woman.
Go to buy a magazine; the ones aimed at men have beautiful women on the covers, the ones aimed at women have beautiful women on the covers. There's a reason for this.
NUMBERS GEEK-ERY ALERT
Ok, I did a tiny bit of analysis to see if I could back this up. I took a random sample of three pages of story links from about a week ago, I didn't count the stories because they attract an abnormally high amount of votes compared to other catergories.
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Total sample: 40 stories
Avatar No of stories No of votes Average votes per story
Default red male 5 33 6.6
Default red female 3 23 7.7
Miscellaneous 17 185 10.8
Male 10 114 11.4
Female 15 241 16.1
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A very small sample but certainly enough to lend weight to what most people would assume to be true
So, before I publish another story I should change my AV back to the picture of my boobs?
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I'm on the pill but I still get hornier the week after my period. I say hornier because I am pretty horny most of the time.
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I agree with the others who said suit. There is nothing sexier on a man than a suit. My boyfriend seems to find it quite funny, I find him sexy anyway but as soon as he puts a suit on I don't leave him alone.
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I didn't at first but then I realised just how much time and effort they were putting in, and since then I always send a quick thank you message.
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Getting me to the edge of an orgasm and telling me that I'm not allowed to cum yet, then continuing to hold me on edge.
His hand around my throat, it lets me know exactly who is in charge.
Bending me over, exposing my arse to him and giving me a good, hard spanking.
Although, nothing beats feeling his lips against my ear as he says my favourite word, 'Mine.'
His hand around my throat, it lets me know exactly who is in charge.
Bending me over, exposing my arse to him and giving me a good, hard spanking.
Although, nothing beats feeling his lips against my ear as he says my favourite word, 'Mine.'
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I get self conscious about it sometimes, I like how it feels and tastes, it's just if I ever look at it really closely with a mirror. I've never had any complaints, in fact, I usually receive plenty of comments, then again, these are from guys who want to fuck me or have fucked me, so they're opinions are biased!
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It's my favourite. With my legs wrapped around him holding him deep inside me, his hands pinning mine to the bed above my head, his lips pressed against mine in a breathless kiss - what's not to love?
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Ok, so educate me here. I'm not into this lifestyle, nor do I really understand it (or its appeal), so I really have to ask this question. Personally, I would not be a slave to anyone, nor would I feel the need to have that much control over another person. Sure, to belong to someone, submit to someone sexually, or be dominant towards them, I get all that, but I know this is on a whole other level.
So my question, why cant a "slave" be in this type of relationship yet still carry on an everyday relationship with the rest of their family (mum, dad, siblings, friends, even a job etc)?? Why would you make someone chose between you or their family or them feel the need to make that choice?? To me, this is how this reads. Maybe I got is ass backwards, but it sounds like an extremely selfish thing to do and over the top controlling (which I know is the point), but on the other hand, letting them go is extremely unselfish. No wonder I'm confused. Look, I'm not judging people on the lifestyles they chose to lead, I'm just trying to understand what the real deal is here. To me, if I love someone, yes, I expect them to be loyal to me as I am to them, but I would not make them feel like they need to ask for permission to do every little thing, and I have seen it in the chat rooms. "Can I masturbate Mistress?" I mean....
This post is probably going to piss a lot of people off because of my personal views, and if it does, I apologize, its not my intention. I simply would like to understand why this person had to make that choice. Thanks..
I don't know about the situation to be able to give you the answer, but from what I have seen of PM online and from his OP here, I suspect that he wasn't the one making her choose.
We don't know the details here and it's none of our business but generally, there's no reason why a slave would have to choose between their master and their family, if anything, the relationship with their master would improve other parts of their life, including family relationships.
As for why it happened here? I don't know, it's got nothing to do with me so I have no need to know, I'm just sorry for them that it happened and I wish them both luck for their futures.
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I hate the sound of other people eating. Most of the time it's not so bad but if I think about it too much I find an excuse to leave
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I take everything far too seriously, I find stupid things funny and can't stop laughing, I always laugh at my own jokes and despite being too open and too loud when I get to know someone, I'm really shy at first. Also, I still love to watch Count Duckula!
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Giggles....You did!
Ok, if I met a man who was amazing and short, I wouldn't date him (even if I was single) because his height would get in the way.
I wouldn't let height be an issue with an amazing and short woman - as you well know
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Well i'm 6ft1 and height makes no difference to me but short girls are more attracted to smaller fellas in my opinion and tall girls to tall fellas! This is my opinion!
I'm 5' 4 and I adore tall men, particularly if they're 6'+. I'd like to think that if I met someone amazing and short I wouldn't let their height get in the way, but the reality is that I went out with someone who was 5' 8 once and it drove me crazy. I can go as low as 5' 10 but no shorter
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