I have to agree Nikki709 you need to find out whats wrong befor its to late,I have been with mine for 40 yrs. and have had the same long dry points but sat down with her and ask about it,Her repliy was the kids,job,house,stress,after her dad pasting and her moms morning,and needing her help.do not think i did not help out with every thing ther was 7yrs i came home and cooker for all and cleaned.but felt alone so i sat her down and talked with her about it she had no idea i felt this way i told her that i was not mad but felt flustrsted sexaly.she broke down stared crying I held her, things have been have improved alot .