When I woke up that Saturday morning, I made a bowl of cereal and opened up Grindr. The moment I did, I was yet again bombarded with messages and taps from several different guys who were clearly all soldiers. Half of the guys that messaged me sent dick pics (of course), and the other half acted like they just wanted to chat. Yeah, right. Well, I figured I'd change my display name and make my profile picture a little more...

Sometimes, I worry if I've gotten too far in over my head…  My journey through chastity play is not an easy one, and it's a path that many of my sexual peers would never have had the fortitude to walk down. Allow me to preface this story with what you'll find in it, and what kind of person I am. My name is Kai. It's short for a different name, but I won't go in it. I'm in my early twenties, and in the army— something that...