Don't listen to all these lying women. All of us women went to college and we all had the same experiences that you see in B-grade porn. We all dressed in lingerie every night. pillow fights. group bubble baths. cheerleader outfits. Then we'd all climb into our one big bed and kiss, lick, and gigle until someone brought out the dildos and vibrators. Eventually, the handcuffs and whips would come out and some lucky girl ends up tied to the sybian while her ass is paddled and the pizza delivery guy fucks her throat.....ahhh college. It was like that. Really.
Other things you may not know... Size does matter to every women -- we don't care about personality as long as you have a big cock. Also, we all like the same thing. There is one spot that will drive us to orgasm everytime you touch it, but we are not allowed to tell you where it is... its a girl-club rule. We also all love it when men sit on the couch drinking beer, playing video games, and belching as loud as you can...turns us on.
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dimac_36d
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 59
United States
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Forgive me for being cynical here, but I've noticed a LOT of questions from men asking how they can be better lovers. How to turn women on. Does size matter.... (yes, I know this is the forum for those questions). And of course every woman answers with her own opinion (like we should). But there is NO one answer that will make a man a better lover to ALL women. Communication and honesty come close, but some women really don't want that (at some points in their lives). There is no magic, silver bullet. Your partner today may like something completely different than your partner yesterday.... and they could be the same partner!
There are some nights where I want an "attentive" lover. Bubble bath with candles, nice music, good wine, lots of foreplay, intimacy, and romance. There are some nights where I want to be spanked, fucked, and have him cum where ever he wants. Most of the time, I prefer something in between.
I had a guy fingering me when I told him "mmm, that feels nice"... for the next 2 weeks, that's ALL he did. It got boring. Even when I told him to do something else, he would go back to that spot because he thought it would get me off sooner. (He thought he was being "attentive")
Just like most everything else in life, there are no short cuts....
(Just my opinion)
There are some nights where I want an "attentive" lover. Bubble bath with candles, nice music, good wine, lots of foreplay, intimacy, and romance. There are some nights where I want to be spanked, fucked, and have him cum where ever he wants. Most of the time, I prefer something in between.
I had a guy fingering me when I told him "mmm, that feels nice"... for the next 2 weeks, that's ALL he did. It got boring. Even when I told him to do something else, he would go back to that spot because he thought it would get me off sooner. (He thought he was being "attentive")
Just like most everything else in life, there are no short cuts....
(Just my opinion)
Rookie Scribe
> Have a question for the ladies. What is most important when you check out a guy???
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> Does his size matters? Or Does Stamina Matters? Does experience matter? or is it the guy as a person important?
>
Of course it's size first, stamina second, and person third... When I first see a guy (usually in the bus station) I ask to see his penis. Then I ask to see him jack off to see how long it takes him. Finally, I'll check to make sure he is a person and not a horse... like that really matters....
Ok boys, one more time about the penis thing....
Here is MY honest opinion. If a guy has a nice penis, that is a bonus. BUT there are so many other factors that mean so much more to most women... I like good looking men. I like confident men. I like funny men. This may be shallow, but I also like men with jobs. I like honest men. I like men to be open emotionally, but NOT too much too fast (see confidence). I also like men .... blah blah blah... all of these are more important than dick size.
If you are a gorgeous man, you will get "checked out" first. But if you have no personality or sense of humor, you won't get anywhere with me. Eye candy doesn't do it for me in bed if they don't make me feel good emotionally.
My first husband (yes, I'm an old woman) was 5'9", overweight, balding, and had an average sized dick. But he was very very smart, confident, treated me right, and was absolutely the best lover I ever had. Until he cheated on me, then he became a small dicked fattie.
So here is my advice to all you young men... PLAY YOUR STRENGTHS. If you are not tall, good looking, and rich, so what? If you have a great personality, a wicked sense of humor, and the confidence to talk (and listen), you will get lucky with me. :-)
>
> Does his size matters? Or Does Stamina Matters? Does experience matter? or is it the guy as a person important?
>
Of course it's size first, stamina second, and person third... When I first see a guy (usually in the bus station) I ask to see his penis. Then I ask to see him jack off to see how long it takes him. Finally, I'll check to make sure he is a person and not a horse... like that really matters....
Ok boys, one more time about the penis thing....
Here is MY honest opinion. If a guy has a nice penis, that is a bonus. BUT there are so many other factors that mean so much more to most women... I like good looking men. I like confident men. I like funny men. This may be shallow, but I also like men with jobs. I like honest men. I like men to be open emotionally, but NOT too much too fast (see confidence). I also like men .... blah blah blah... all of these are more important than dick size.
If you are a gorgeous man, you will get "checked out" first. But if you have no personality or sense of humor, you won't get anywhere with me. Eye candy doesn't do it for me in bed if they don't make me feel good emotionally.
My first husband (yes, I'm an old woman) was 5'9", overweight, balding, and had an average sized dick. But he was very very smart, confident, treated me right, and was absolutely the best lover I ever had. Until he cheated on me, then he became a small dicked fattie.
So here is my advice to all you young men... PLAY YOUR STRENGTHS. If you are not tall, good looking, and rich, so what? If you have a great personality, a wicked sense of humor, and the confidence to talk (and listen), you will get lucky with me. :-)